Don't stress..fibroids are very common esp women over 35. Most women don't even know they have fibroids until they get pregnant. I have 5 large fibroids and I just had a healthy little girl on April 2nd. My fibroids didn't give me an ounce of trouble the entire pregnancy. The only thing that they did was make me look bigger than I actually was...same as what you're experiencing...So don't worry..
Well of course I'm not trying to scare you, but I too lost a baby last year (on my daughter's bday, on June 14th, and I was 17-18 weeks)........HOWEVER, it wasn't good for me from the start. I started having complications around 7-8 weeks, SEVERE pain, and my water started leaking on the 13th and I lost the baby on the 14th; HOWEVER, I'm now pregnant again and I'm currently 21 weeks, and so far NO issues. No pain, NOTHING, so far so good with this baby, though they're watching me closely, but my last sonogram showed a healthy baby boy, very active, and the doc there told me the position of my fibroids didn't seem like it was going to harm the baby. I hear in MOST cases fibroids don't cause any harm to the baby, it may cause a little uncomfortable-ness during pregnacy, may cause you to go into labor early, or may cause you to have to have a c-section..........BUT from my experience and understanding it varies from pregnancy to pregnancy, again my last pregnancy was HORRIBLE, but so far so good this time around, and I'm feeling positive considering I haven't had any complications and I'm past the point where I was last year. So if you haven't had any complications, I'd consider that a positive thing...........I'm sure you'll be OK.....keep me posted (I have to rush outta of here, have a doctor's appointment in the next 15 minutes (I work only 10 minutes away) so I have to rush now. I'll check later for any updates
I have 2 large fibroids. And I too read many scary things. But I get probably a few more U/s than other women because they measure them ea visit to ensure that they arent getting larger. Estrogen can make them larger. The location is non threatening. But my Doc did tell me about a procedure where they basically cut off the artery that is feeding the fibroid and it shrinks away. Its like the most minimally invasive way he said. I asked about it but its not something he seems concerned with right now.
You might want to direct this question to ImmortalOne on the Maternal/Child forum. She had surgery for a fibroid while she was pregnant. (I don't remember how far along she was). I'm sure she can answer any questions you may have.