Hi Girls, or guys!... a week ago one of my very good friends lost her baby, the baby was supposed to be due this past weekend, so she already had everything ready to recieve him at home, this baby was her 3rd, she is 35 and mother of 2 boys, 5 and 2 years old. This baby was also a boy. Still I do not know what exaclty went wrong, she went to listen the baby's heart since she felt he was not moving too much as he used to, and everything was "fine". two days later when she went again to her appointment the baby heartbeat was gone. I spoke with her at the hospital and she seemed "ok" she was like all super moms directing the husband on picking up the kids at kindergarten, pointing where the food at the fridge was and that he needed to pick up the laundry...but since then she decided to close herself at her home, and even though her mom is with her and her husband, she does not want to see any one at all...I know there's a period of pain and as far as I understand "we" will never forget this baby because he was already among us in many ways... I have phoned her place and her mom and husband said she is slightly better but still she is not feeling like seeing any one... I hardly can imagine her pain since I do not have any kids of my own, but she is really a dear friend.. which is the best way to be a good friend in this situations? leave alone, phone, send presents? which is your experience? feel sad for her and in a way I wish I could help some how.... do you understand what I mean??