No foetal pole

[Baves]

Hi if there is no foetal pole showing at 8wks and 3days is there something to be alarmed about?please help me with this question

[Lilslava]

I had a miscarriage earlier this year. I was 9 weeks along and when I had my sonogram, there wasn't a fetal pole. I had to have a d and c done a week later. I hope you can get another ultrasound done and see a little heartbeat:)

[cutter1974]

Baves, what you are feeling right now is completely normal.  That is how I felt. I cramped for several weeks after and had bleeding.
As for your feelings, I went thru that to. But don't worry, it does get better in time.  My last miscarriage was Dec.14th and I did not want to celebrate Christmas, but had to for the sake of everyone else. I just went thru the motions. I survived it, but did not enjoy it. My heart was broken and I was suffering. It took me months and months to emotionally heal.  Your family and friends just need to give you some time, you need to mourn your loss in your own way.
Men and women grieve differently. I am sure your husband is grieving as well, he is just trying to be strong, and sucking it up, and trying to move on. My husband did that and it made me angry at first. I thought he didn't care.
I just wanted to lie in bed all day and cry, or I just felt numb and lost inside and hated anyone that was pregnant and happy.
You are having big adjustments in hormones right now as well, and that can be a yo-yo ride of emotions.
Just give yourself time, and talk about your feeling and thoughts with people to can understand and not judge. You will eventually be whole again. Hang in there!

[cutter1974]

As long as you don't have a bleeding disorder, the aspirin should be fine. It thins your blood a bit. So I find if I cut myself r get a bruise, it bleeds more. You can always talk to your doctor about it if you are unsure.

[Baves]

Hey cutter.tomorrows my son 2nd birthday and even though I'm so excited for him and love him to death I just can't get into the party mood.is that mean of me?my mother in law has organized everything and I just don't feel up to it.she keeps telling me to try and forget and to move on but how?ive become distant from my husband and do has he?we just don't communicate anymore and it feels like he doesn't want to be around me.im hurting so much inside that I can't even cry anymore.is it ok to still feel cramping after dnc even though it's almost been a week.should I see doctor?

[Baves]

So it doesn't harm you in anyway?do I tell my doctor when I want to take it?

[cutter1974]

It is a pill 81 mg.  
I don't know why it is called baby aspirin, since babies can't take it. Aspirin can cause an illness in children, Reye syndrome. I guess they call it baby aspirin because it is a low dose aspirin. Lots of people with heart problems take them.