The thing is I'm stuck at the clinic until my medicaid goes threw, then I will be switching to a real doctor! I was taken back by all her rude comments and this was a planned pregnancy! I was only considering what she said because of the risks of multiple c-section s are real.I'm 15wks along due in sept:))
First off I agree sounds like you need a new dr that's NOT their place or business to tell someone to get their tubes tied... I'm 38 due in 13 weeks in new relationship with baby number 5!! He wanted a little girl soo badly and we're having a girl. He had a son only. I've got 2 if each already. I said 8 yrs ago after last I WAS DONE lol yaa here I am :) make it UR CHOICE and decision. not the doctor. Do what's best for u :) good luck. Btw how far along when are you due?
I wouldnt do it. You can definately count on fertility issues in the future. Dont let anyone pressure you. Actually, i think i might seek a different doctor if i were you. The doctors dont care, kinda seems like they are treating your pregnancy as "accidental" and your "over the hill 35". Your mind might change in a couple years about having another, then you might have difficulty conceiving. I would say just take the pill if you dont want to get pregnant for now.
There are alot of women on here that are in there 40's and are in new relationships praying to conceive. You just never know what the future holds.
Also , do a search on here about tubal pregnancies. Many have had tubes tied or untied.
I do realize that most women on here are pregnant , but maybe u know someone who had it done..or maybe u know more then me on this subject? Being how this will be my 4th c-section and I'm 35 yrs old..the clinic is kinda pressuring me to say I will do it!! Just wsnt facts before I make a permanent decision.