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2 poss. fathers pls help! :\
Hello..
Thanx for taking the time to read this is embarrassing but true am lossing sleep..
So I had sex with my bf December 14 & 15 w/full ejaculation..and on December 17th I had sex with another guy we used a condom but he took it off but there was no ejaculation now on my ultrasound according to the Dr. Am 8wks 4days making my conception date Dec. 16th but i didn't have sex this day am so confused my periods are very irregular pls help :(
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2011689 tn?1328054246
This makes it very hard to figure it out.

Your best bet in my opinion is to wait until your baby is a little bigger and if your local hospital has the correct equipment have them do a DNA test.

They can do it while the baby is in the womb still.

My mom had to do it for me when she was pregnant. (My dad was in denial.)
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Sperm can live up 7days in the uterus. So even if you didn't have sex on the 16th it still could be the living sperm from the 14th and 15th.! I would say its the boyfriends. But ultimately a DNA test is the only 100% way to know who is exactly the father!
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Ultrasounds aren't accurate to the day, they could be off by up to a week at that point in the pregnancy. There really is no way to know other than through a DNA test.
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Dna test is the only for sure way..
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Sperm can live up to 5 days 7 if it's a healthy environment. The only way you could be 100% positive since its so close together would be a DNA test. Everyone makes mistakes.
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Ultrasounds can be off by up to a week. They're not 100% accurate..
If your second partner took off his condom and you guys still had sex, there's a chance he could have gotten you pregnant.. even if he didn't ejaculate inside you... pre c u m still contains sperm...
So honestly, there's a chance it could be eithers...
a dna test after baby is born is the only way to be sure...
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