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Anyone else going through this with s/o?

I feel like me being pregnant has really put me and my boyfriend distant . We were talking for a year and I was about to move in I had my uhaul at his house and everything and that day I found out he had a gf for four years !!! We stopped talking for a couple weeks and we got back together we kind of put everything out in the open and started over and we were great he lived two hours away though because I had to move back with my mom when I found out he was cheating . Well eventually he dropped everything and moved here and my mom let us stay in her condo she rents out but we fought so much and I just have no trust lately that he moved out to his co workers house so now I live alone ... He is now transferring to a different center that is an hour away from me and he leaves next weekend .. He says we are going to work on things but I'm so scared he is going to leave me for good I know he'll be there for our son but I'm just afraid.. He says he's going to find us a two bedroom house and then have make move in but that probably won't be until after the baby is here. It ***** because when I got pregnant I thought we were going to be a team and now it feels like we are working against each other he is always on edge with me and flips out if I ask a question or if I do something wrong or not answer his calls or get upset if he doesn't answer my calls for hours at a time .. I just feel like we are drifting no matter how hard I try to pull us back together.
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Same here... I feel like the littlest things are what set him off... At the moment we got into an argument because of me liking someones picture in instagram and we haven't spoken since. It's been almost 24 hours and no attention from him even when I'm sitting next to him. I try not to show it upsets me, but it really does...
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I feel the same way! Before I found out I was pregnant, we used to talk about getting married all the time! He would show me so much attention and would tell me he loved me. But now, its like he doesn't even like me anymore, let alone love me. The other day was our 1 year and 3 months and normally he always tells me happy anniversary and gets me something. Well not this time. I wished him happy anniversary more than once and he never even said it back. He would nog say it! Idk if he's really acting different or if its just my hormones! Lol
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I know the feeling since I got pregnant there is nothing there between me and my boyfriend.  I'm nearly 31 weeks and we haven't even had sex since we found out. It's driving me mad and don't know what to do about it. I've just got to the point now where I hate him although I don't want to I do!
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