Anyone else paranoid

[casablancas]

I'm 10 weeks pregnant, had a scan at 9 weeks + 2 days and saw the heart beat, I had a previous miscarriage where the baby died at 8 weeks + 5 days. I am totally paranoid that something is going to go wrong with this pregnancy, I am not enjoying it at all, every day I think the baby has probably died. I don't get another scan till I'm 13 and a half weeks on the 11th December, I'm convinced the baby will not have grown by then.
I don't really have any pregnancy sypmtoms apart from being tired and feeling extremely full when I eat, I have never had any morning sickness and my boobs only hurt for a week back in week 6.
Do any of you feel this worried about your pregnancy?? Do you think I should be feeling something or is it normal to not feel much at 10 weeks?
thanks

[alaysha]

I can relate to what you say. I felt the same way in the beginning of my pregnancy after having a miscarriage as well. Honestly I know you dont want to hear this but that feeling of fear is going to last the whole time. I'm now 33 1/2 weeks and I am so scared that something might stil go wrong that I worry about it every day. I'm a little more relaxed but I think worrying is just a part of being pregnant. Also I had no pregnancy symptoms. Morning sickness for about 3 weeks and then nothing my boobs haven't been sore at all either. Each pregnancy is different so dont be worried if you dont have symptoms.

[ftogirl]

I can totally relate to what you are saying.  Three years ago, I miscarried at 8 1/2 weeks.  Now I am 10w4d and I feel the same way you do.  I saw the heartbeat last month but I still keep feeling like what if the baby has died.  And I wonder if I will go for my next appt (tomorrow) and find out it's over.  But I think this is normal after we've had a m/c.  I try my best to relax and hope, because worrying is not going to change anything.  I have noticed in the past week I am starting to relax more.  I am having some nausea and dizziness, but when you have the kind of worries we are having that doesn't really take all your doubts away.  Maybe as a few more weeks pass you will start to settle down and relax more and have more confidence that things will work out.  And when we get far enough along to feel kicks we won't have to doubt then!  Best wishes!!!

[guatmommy]

I am a nervous wreck!  I am 12 weeks tody.  I have been seeing my doctor and the high risk doctor at least once a week and I always get a sono.  This week my dr. told me she is releasing me to 3 weeks - I almost had heart failure.  She saw I was upset- I have a great dr she told me if I need to see the baby in between call and she will do a quick sono.  Turns out- I have to go back to high risk next week because the baby didn't ewant to coioperate yesterday for the ultrascreen.  So  that will ease my nerves :-)

I previously had a m/c at 7 1/2 weeks.

[darcy92681]

Hunny..... you have to relax a little bit. I know that's easier said then done, but you need to take it easy. Worrying like that isn't good either. Keep up good spirits and think the best. That is what will help you get through it. It seems like everything is going ok. Think about that. Not everyone has pregnancy symptoms. Having none or fews signs doesn't mean bad things. Kick up your feet and watch a good movie :-) Good luck

[silver82]

Hi luvy its normal what you r feeling love and also its normal not to feel much at 10 weeks. Try and relax an rest and i wish you all the best. Keep me posted and good luck. Ill be thinking about you xx Rachel