I am a ftm as well i am 19 w +1 day i only feel baby at night when im laying down. Its very light flutters still. Try laying on your side as well. :)
Don,t stress to much it,s still early for a ftm x
My Dr said for ftm it can be up to 24 weeks so don't worry:)
Your placenta could be in the front like mine is and I really didnt feel much until about 23 weeks
U prolly have felt it and jus dont know.. wen i was that early it felt like taps and he was tightening up n one spot
That is still pretty early for a ftm. I would wait a fewweeks before worrying. You can also try laying really still on your back with your hands on your belly and it may help. I did that with this one and felt her at 15 weeks. But i had to concentrate. I didnt feel my son till after 20 weeks