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Decision

Hi Everyone,

After speaking to you all earlier today and my earlier post about aborting i have come to a decision to keep my baby and to welcome my new bundle of joy that it will bring into my life with open arms. I have the support around me so i would be selfish to throw a little angel that has been sent to me away or to give it away.  

The replies that i got made me realise that abortion should never have been thought of and speaking to people outside my family and friends no matter what their thoughts are its my decision i have to deal with and i dont think i could handle killing a baby

Life is full of challenges and obstacles but what are we put on this earth for.  

Thank you to all that have helped me I still am scared but reassured its the right decision.

I am due in mid july.

Thank you
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373752 tn?1199921210
Congratulations to you girl!! You won't regret your decision, I promise!! I have had to put off school for 6 years, and every time I try I get pregnant!! lol  My hubby and I are on our third pregnancy, but you know what?? I won't stop trying to finish. It may be put off, but not impossible. Nobody's ever ready to have a baby Honey, and that's just the way it goes....you adjust and work your life around obstacles, and make it work the best it can. Remember that we are all here, and there is always support when you have doubts!!! Good luck Sweetie!!!
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Congrats you will definitely not regret your decision.
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372711 tn?1200613706
I am so happy for you! CONGRATS!!! You never truly realize the meaning of love and life until you hold your little one in your arm's for the first time! CONGRATS!
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287246 tn?1318570063
I'm sooooooo glad you decided to keep your little one.  You won't be sorry.  I promise!  There is no one in this world that you will love more than this baby.  It is truly a love like no other.  It runs deeper than you can imagine.  You can't imagine it and there aren't words to describe it.  Once you see that little one, your heart will literally break in the best way possible.  We are all here for you.  I hope I wasn't too harsh yesterday either.  I really tried not to be.  I just wanted to be honest.  There are just a lot of ladies on here with broken hearts because they have lost their angels.  I never have, so I can only imagine how they feel.  I've never experienced it but only know how much I love my children and can't imagine my life without them.  Congrats and please keep us posted.  I think you will be glad that you found this forum and this group of ladies.  It's almost like a family here.  Take care!
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325319 tn?1220588398
yay!!!!!!im so glad you decided to keep your baby! it will be an adventure, but the best kind!! congrats! :)
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LOL! What'd I tell you, law? Please keep us updated on your pregnancy, how you're feeling, any questions!

Are you going to make a doc appointment soon? You'll get to hear the heartbeat at this point!!!
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202436 tn?1326474333
Congratulations.  Only YOU can make the best decision for you and your unborn child.  The women on this forum, especially me, can be very heated about the abortion topic....HOWEVER..the majority of us are very compassionate and understanding...we are hear for you throughout this pregnancy to answer your questions as best we can or just to listen to any concerns or complaints you have.  Welcome to the wonderful world of pregnancy.  
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339491 tn?1201704587
I'm so happy to hear that.  I'm sure you will be a wonderful new mom.  Good luck and have a happy and healthy pregnancy!
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320773 tn?1202772488
Ok, tears of joy are flowing now, I am so happy to hear this. I know that you are making the right choice, and you will be happier and your life will be so much fuller. I am so glad to hear this - YAY
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I think you will live to learn that you have made an awesome decision!!
Take Care
Kris
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332156 tn?1266843139
How WONDERFUL!!!  I am soo happy for you.  I am telling you its the best decision that you have ever made! Keep us posted on how things are.  And we are always here for you if you need anything else!  Congrats!!!!
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Congratulations. :)
I dont want to sound like i think i'm better than you by saying this, but i'm proud of you for coming around.  =o)
it will all be okay. maybe a little harder, but a lot happier, once your baby is here.
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355403 tn?1200020652
Hey thats an amazing thing you did ..standing up and realizing how precious life is. Once you see your little one you wont know what to do without them. CONGRATS!
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191945 tn?1201817571
Congrats!! I'm sorry if my comment was way harsh.. I just tend to get pretty emotional/opinionated with things like that. and JoyRenee is right you're not alone and we are ALL rooting for you!!
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Yay!!!! Congratulations!!! We're rooting for you, sweetheart! You aren't alone in this!!!
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