Well first off let me say that I am totally against epsiotomy's because you have a greater risk for infection than you if you tear.... If your wife has a cut then I would use iodine, or something before shower's, or baths and also go to the GYN and see what they say. They might tell her to just let it heal on it's own........ Not sure what kind of advice to give because I told my DR to let me tear..... Tearing is actually better than being cut..... That's why I tore with all 3 of mine......
she could try to keep the area moist use iodine before taken a shower that helps to lessen the chance of infection i think the doctor didnt do a good job stitchin her when i had my son and they gave an episiotomy it hurt for like 3 days or so then i was fine sorry to say but i dont think they will restitich her so am guessin she has to heal on her own tell her monitor it if it still hurt go to the doctor or ER u should try goin to another doctor hope this helps