Finding out the gender

[heatherbelle01]

So I posted last week how my hubby has to go to jail tomorrow for the next 3 months. But while he is in there I will be able to find out the gender of our twins. I still have a little ways to go as I will be 11 weeks in the next couple of days.  But my MIL and I want to know the gender and then when he gets out (which should be around Thanksgiving) I was thinking of ways to surprise him and tell him what were having. Or should I wait to find out what were having when he gets out? I am so conflicted on what to do...what do you ladies think?

[heatherbelle01]

This is our 2nd pregnancy. And I agree with you LadyBeeley- it is the most beautiful moment of the pregnancy...that's why I am so conflicted. Because I want to know but I also want him there. But thanks ladies for your opinions and ideas, I really appreciate it. And yeah it s u c k s big time he cant be there.

[Aly96]

S u c k s .
And yeah i agree ^^ if its yah first then wait .

[Nayy_]

If you would like to start buying things eventually then find out and play a guessing game with him (:

[Aly96]

I think you should find out the gender and surprise him that way you can start buying cute little outfits and get a better idea of things you know ? Thats just me though . I know it ***** that he cant be there for it . :/

[LadyBeeley]

If its both yalla first I would really wait til hes out. Its one of the most beautiful moments during your pregnancy he deserves to be there and experience it for himself. Just my opinion momma. Good luck with your choice either way :)