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1936698 tn?1333915193

First time my fiance felt a BIG kick :)

I'm 35 weeks and I swear Charlie does not like to be seen when her dad is around. She will wiggle for me anytime I want her to, but as soon as Brent (my fiance) gets near and tries to feel, she stops and refuses to move. As soon as he goes away she will start being a little a ninja again. It's weird. Well the other day she was moving a lot. Making big moves and it was the first time I've seen her actually push up on my tummy and move around. Well Brent was determined to feel her so he waited and waited and waited them finally she did a BIG, i mean BIG move and it was right under where his hand was. He jumped back so far he almost fell off the bed!! He said it scared him (remember he never really got to feel her move before so this was new to him), and he just sat there and kept watching her move without touching my belly. He said it looks weird and he kept trying to imagine what she was doing. She still does the big moves and he wanted to feel it again last night but he says it feels weird. Does anyone elses hubby do that or is mine just weird lol.
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1936698 tn?1333915193
I think they can sense when we aren't touching them anymore. I wonder if they are so attached to us and then when they sense someone is near or something they go into ninja mode. I just find it weird how she hides so much from him. I feel bad because he really wants to feel her and see her, but it's like she doesn't want to show him what she can do.
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2006603 tn?1331329327
I am 25 weeks tomorrow and my little fella kicks ALOT at night when im laying on my back or my right side. Well yesterday i was lying on my back watching tv with my fiance and he put his hand on my stomach and almost instantly our little fella kicked so hard he moved my fiances hand. It freaked my fiance out, he quickly removed his hand from my stomach and just stared at my stomach waiting for it to move again. It was so funny, that was the first time my fiance really got to feel our little boy move.
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1901977 tn?1333991726
The other day she was kicking up a storm in one place right until the moment her father put his hand on my stomach to feel him, literally replaced my hand with his and she stopped completely. I am kind wondering if she likes him lol, or if she's just shy with him.
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2053975 tn?1343405733
My son never kicks around my husband. He will put his hand on my tummy for ever and the baby will not move. He will also stare at my tummy and he will not move. My poor husband is really frustrated that he can't feel the baby move. My husband says the baby gets jealous because he's around me. Lol
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1936698 tn?1333915193
My fiance would get spend forever talking to her, he sing to her and got nothing. He said when she's born he's going to hold her a lot to make sure she likes him lol.
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1901977 tn?1333991726
My baby is ninja around her father too. He keeps trying, and she keeps hiding. 29 weeks and I think he's getting frustrated.
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