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Five months pregnant and my fiance broke up with me :(

I'm in my 20th week, my fiance is having financial trouble and can't deal with my emotional pregnancy issues right now and has to focus on himself. I've never been dumped before, this is my first real relationship. My question is, if anyone else out there has gone through this and does the pain go away? I haven't been able to stop crying for the past two days. And is going through this emotional hell bad for the baby?
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that totally sux hun soo sorry!!! for my first break up I dealt with it by going out with some else im still.with him 5years later but that's how I dealt with it!..the pain doez go away!!! ohhh and yes dont stress out it does cause harm to the baby my doc who is a specialist said mind is very powerfull and stress can cause you to lose the baby. my best friend lost her bf in a car accident she was 23weeks and she lost the baby. so dont stress out it will harm the baby plz try to relax I know its hard but u have to. all the best hunny hang in there :))))
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Only because he had a major change is why I took him back yes it was hard I hope everything works out for you
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I stopped talking to my bf for 5months because he wasn't showing much interest in the baby & I blocked him from everything & he wrote me on Facebook over a week ago & now we are together & I'm having his son the end of this month
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Mine broke up with me once he found out I was pregnant , then he came back around after 2 months of no speaking at all it broke my heart to know he was messing around while I was heart broken at home we are not officially together but things can not be better he is so involve ( he wanted me to get an abortion bad) he is showing a side I never seen !!!! And I'm still hurt I still cry at nights just thinking about him being with other ppl and leaving me when I needed him the most .... My advice give it time dont annoy him it's hard for him as well and man don't deal with pain and hard situations like we would want them too i cry non stop and to be honest telling you not too is me being fake ... Just distract your self AS MUCH AS POSSIBLE
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Im so sorry that this happen to u my boyfriend left me too.U cant sit around and be sad or depress it can effect the baby so just try and keep ur self busy.one of the ways I kept my sale busy was reading to my baby and singing different songs to my baby.
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Im so sorry that this happen to u my boyfriend left me too.U cant sit around and be sad or depress it can effect the baby so just try and keep ur self busy.one of the ways I kept my sale busy was reading to my baby and singing different songs to my baby.
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I'm sorry it happend to me too I was depressed for a couple days but not talking or seeing him helped me get over it your a strong woman and you have to stay strong for your baby single mommies are the best we're warriors ! Keep your head up hel regret it but dnt be crying everyday its bad for the baby youl get through this I did (:
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It gets better hun. I know its hard but just try to stay busy and keep your mibd off him
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Omg I'm so sorry, I went threw that with my first pregnancy and his sorry butt regret letting me go. I know this will be an emotional time for you but just focus on you and the baby.
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