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Can I be pregnant after two period and two abortions in the pass.I had sex twice in January. the first time was 3 days into my period (it normally ends 3days but after sex it came another 2more days)and the other about 8-10 day after the start date i have had two periods after that..but i am having nausea every time i wake even during the days I am constantly nauseus. i have a rise tummy cravings and cramped tummy,i havent done a test,its been over 4years of my last abortion but i have not gotten pregnant after that so i had taken it i cant get pregnant also base on the time i had sex..please i need some expert advice
Ok i comment on that group but i got some negative response so i decided to leave that group of people i feel much better using this community....I have decided that I will tell him even if I am pregnant..I dont have the strength as yet but I sure will tell him I dont know what will be his response..I sure wants a baby though i feel empty and angry each time i see my period comes, but i am hoping I am by Gods miracle
Yeah, I looked at your posts because I wasn't understanding where you were coming from. Wasn't trying to be creepy, just trying to understand.
Well I as well had 2 terminations for personal reasons, and I have conceived just fine. I'm not a doctor so that's the best I can offer on the subject, but from personal experience and research I don't think that's the problem. I do hope all works out for you.
I ASSURE you medical abortions do not hurt your chance to get pregnant. That is just a lie people tell women to scare them.
I was raped 7 years ago. For 5 years I told no one our of fear, shame, guilt. Holding it in made me VERY sick. I stopped eating, I threw up all the time. I had some serious trauma and I needed to talk through it. I needed some one to hear my story and tell me, you did nothing wrong. You are a survivor. You are worthy of happiness. It was very hard but it got better. I had to yell my parents, my husband, and a therapist. I encourage you to talk to someone. You are worthy of happiness to. You did nothing wrong. You are a strong survivor.
Thanks for the advice I just hope it work out..and hope that I can have a baby thats another worry If i cant get pregnant...as you can see i am afraid that the terminations affected my chance of been pregnant
I am praying the test is positive for a baby because i wish not to rehash some of these details with him.... writing it here, am in tears..
If i understand from your post in another group, rape and abuse played in to your decision to end your pregnancies. These are traumatic events you can only talk about when you are ready. I'm sure you have a hard time opening up and trusting people. I'm sure you're afraid of what he'll say, but a good man will understand. Tell him what you went through, be honest. Anyone you have a kid with has to have your back 100%. Everything will be OK.
Maybe take it when he's at work? Or just buy it and take it in the bathroom at the store. If it's positive take it home and show him.
I would not want to lose my hubby..I want to buy the test but he seems to be always with me...with my 2nd pregnancy i believe that I had a few periods just the symptoms i wrote previously in the end I was 15wks and 2days when i found out
The initial reaction may not be the best but it takes a lot of trust and courage to disclose something so personal to someone and I think it's very brave and respectful toward him for you to do so. After it sets in he will probably realize that.
i should tell him, but I fear me not telling him 2years ago will make him very mad
Well they can't tell anyone about your medical history our speak of it while anyone else is around without your consent. It's against the law. I do however agree that honesty I'd the best policy in a relationship and if it weighs heavily on your conscience that he doesn't know then you should tell him.
I think telling him about your past will help. Keeping secrets can increase stress and hurt your fertility. I'm sure he loves you and will accept you no matter what. Then schedule a doctor appointment, they can help you out a lot!
I think its time i fess up to him as he have children and i cant go to the doc with him without he finding out about my previous abortion....we have been trying all the ovulation stage but since December last year i think he has given up so he said he is giving our bodies a break so thats why we only had sex twice and at that time..I really want to surprise him too
Your hubby could be the problem. If you have already been tracking your period/ovulation and trying to have a baby with no success the problem could be his sperm. It doesn't seem like you are having sex at the best times in your cycle to get pregnant. Try having sex 10-16 days after the 1st day of your period. Have sex every other day. Do that for a year. If that doesn't work both of you should see a doctor to see what's up.
Sorry if i don't sound excited maybe am so fearful if the result isnt positive i would be so heart broken...I am yearning for a baby boy or girl it doesnt matter i just want the test to be positive but when i hope so hard it never happen...since the abortion and meeting my hubby we have been trying i think he is fed up worst i hid the truth
I'm sorry I assumed you were worried about becoming pregnant. It wasn't because you have had abortions, most women who have an abortion go on to become mothers. I just didn't pick up on excitement in your post.
You can still conceive despite terminations. If you have had sex during or after your last period you may be pregnant. If you have not had sex since January and have had your period since then, I highly doubt it. No one knows your body better than yourself and if you are concerned then buy a home test and see what it says.
I do want a baby now my partner also wants a baby..why do people asume that after abortion its BC I do want a family
Abortions do not impact your ability to get pregnant. You can get pregnant on your period and right after your period. If you have had multiple periods since having unprotected sex it is VERY unlikely you're pregnant. Please talk to a health care professional, ask for a pregnancy test and if you are not pregnant talk to them about reliable birth control options. Take control of your health so you don't have to worry!
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