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Heartless?

So I'm nineteen weeks plus with a baby girl. We just found out it was a girl yesterday. I noticed that I don't cry at my ultrasounds, I always hear about women crying when they hear the heartbeat or see the baby but I didn't. Am I heartless?
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1959722_tn?1338781715
No I don't cry either lol.
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1935851_tn?1332351773
I kinda cried last night while thinking about her and staring at the ultrasound but I don't cry at the actual ultrasound. Lol
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1911870_tn?1345422609
I don't cry. I did at the very first one but since then I haven't. I don't think you're heartless. It's normal to be rational.
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2032869_tn?1333992714
No it doesn't make you heartless at all. I didn't cry but I was just excited. lol
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1835206_tn?1414775852
Not at all! I'm not an emotional person either. If I had t miscarried my first, I wouldn't have cried eithet. After losing one it really makes you think about what you lost. I cried out of happiness and as a sigh of relief that everything is going well this time around :)
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1935851_tn?1332351773
Yeah, I get excited and I laugh a little but only because my girl is lazy lol
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1955408_tn?1328062054
I didn't cry. My fiance jokes around that I'm heartless because I'm not extremely emotional or extremely affectionate. I was excited at my ultrasound just because I got to see him move around, but I didn't cry and haven't cried since.
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No not at all. I cried at my first ultrasound with my first baby. But that was it. Only because it was surreal to me at the time.
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I cry with my first baby when I heard the heartbeat......
It was beautiful......  :,),,,,
Second no more tears
Third cried again (no hearth beat)
Forth did not hear the heart beat only saw it in the ultrasound.....why? I don't know
 I was just glad he had a heartbeat....  :)
Not till 23w & 3d 
but that late in my pregnancy wasn't as special anymore
(My dr loves ultrasound) :(
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1999115_tn?1332268924
I didnt cry, at either of my ultrasounds.. I was extremely excited tho.
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689528_tn?1364139441
I haven't cried at any of my ultrasounds!
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1790045_tn?1317188084
With my son I don't remember crying at everyone just my first. Then we had 3 miscarriages and with my current pregnancy I'm 37 weeks and get monthly ultrasounds and cry every time. Even when they only use the Doppler I get emotional. I'm not usually emotional but with hormones and everything we've been through its hard not to.
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2006603_tn?1331332927
I didnt cry at my ultrasounds. I smiled the whole time and couldnt quit smiling.
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1901977_tn?1333995326
I cry when I run outa pickles lol, but not at ultrasounds. I do a lot of smiling, I think she's the best thing ever...but never a tear. I don't think there are really right or wrong emotions when it comes to pregnancy and our hormones.
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im an emotional person but never cried at ultrasounds with any 3 of my pregnances. instead i remember i was smiling to myself all the time!
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i didnt cry either ; jus smiled from ear to ear allll day! Lol
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1654035_tn?1332428778
I am not one who cries often. I am also not one who cries when it comes to happy stuff I smile instead. I have never cried at an U/S, I am happy and smiling and love seeing her move and hearing the H/B but I dont cry. I think if someone called me heartless they would be very inaccurate :)
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2009129_tn?1335374457
No way. The first time I cried with my daughter was when she was born. However, I've since miscarried, so seeing my current baby in an ultrasound waving his/her little arm, I bawled like a baby.
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My mom cried but my husband and I were so nervous because of all the complications we are having. I felt weird as well. Thanks for posting this.
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I'm very emotional & didn't cry @ my ultrasound either. I was way to excited! You're not heartless!
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This is my first and I have been told most my life I would never get pregnant so when I found out I was pregnant, I was in shock but no tears just all smiles and giggles so no your not headless Cuz I love this little baby I'm just realty happy
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I didn't cry when I had my son.... Maybe I was too drugged cuz everyone else was crying. I've also never cried at any ultrasound except when I had a miscarriage last year.
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i dont think so hun. with my first, my son i did because i didnt tell no one that i was pregnant until i was 5 months and i had no prenatal care and i was 16 when i first got pregnant but then when i got pregnant with my daughter i didnt and with this lil girl i didnt either again.
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1989179_tn?1332444658
I haven't cried at a single appointment. I love my son & get excited everytime but there haven't been any tears.
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2077441_tn?1332525413
I cried with my first baby! I'm pregnant with my second and I didn't cry. I don't know the sex yet! But your not heartless
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No ur not heartless. I didn't cry at the ultrasound with my first and I probably won't cry with this one either.
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