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How Long did you have to wait to concieve?

I had a prophesy foretold to me in the Bible that I will concieve arounfd this time next year and that was in July of 2010. I am just wondering how long will it take? yes my faith is waivering . All of friends are getting pregnant. Although Iam happy for them I am also mad, sad and Jealous all at the same time. Even question what God told me was even true and I ask God to forgive me for doubting and others things but I just keep doubting. I am not married so maybe that is the reason..but I just keep thinking alot of people got pregnant before marriage so maybe that is the reason. Oh the vow I broke until God and I ask him to close my womb! But I ask him to forgive me and I know HE did but now my womb is shut closed tight! I hate my life at the moment. Nothing is going right. I just feel cursed. I have folowed some of these girls stories on here and they are pregnant. I am veyr happy but I want it to be my turn to. Please pray for me that God will take these curses off my life and Just give me strength. Thank you and God bless you all!!!
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Thank you so much!!!! Yes I have a steady partner...we have been together for 3 1/2 years... I want to get married next year 2012... I just thought it will happen for me as I wanted another baby since my son and that was 8 yrs ago. we have been trying for 17 months now actively. I have surgery, hsg test done, took clomid, herbs,I tried near everything. I just feel that God has closed my womb for good and He will not open it ever :(. I only have 1 child and wanted 8. I am 27 so time is ticking. lol to get that number 8. But you are definately right GOD knows what HE is doing I just have to hold on and trust that HE is making the best decision for my life right now. Thank you again!!!
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It sounds like right now is not a good time in your life for you to throw something else, like a baby, in the mix.  God knows what he is doing.  I think he is waiting for you to get a grip on your life and be at peace with yourself and your surroundings.  To otherwise bring a child into your life would cause more turmoil.  Sometimes, when we want something so badly, we see "signs" telling us it will happen, when in reality it was just our deep desire reading too deeply into things.  

Now from a statistical standpoint.  You don't mention having a steady significant other, therefore, I assume that you are not actively trying to get pregnant.  If this is true, then your chances are very low.  For a normal, healthy couple who is ACTIVELY trying they only have a 25% chance of conceiving on any given month.  Actively trying is defined by pinpointing ovulation and concentrating on having intercourse during those fertile days every month.  

When you are mentally, phyiscally and spiritually ready...God will know, and it will happen if it is meant to.   Sometimes it's hard, but you have to keep faith.  
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