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How did YOU end up pregnant?

How did you get pregnant? Were you trying to? Did the condom not work? Pre ***? Forced to have sex or rape? sperm donor? Etc.etc. ... im curious to see what the most frequent answer will be between all of us. So my first pregnancy happened due to the fact that i forgot to take my birth control pills & had unprotected sex & he came inside of me for sure. And for this pregnancy we just werent using any protection at all, i was trusting him this time around to just pull out each time we had sex or learn how to control his freakin sperm,obviously that didnt work -.- lol,but he claims he didnt *** inside of me so idk if it was pre *** or if he just lied cus i didnt notice if he came or not, so anywhos they were obviously both by accident,but im still blessed to have this little thing growing inside of me. how did you girls end up prego?

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I didnt think i could have a baby we had been trying for 10 mths. Then we got engaged 12 12 and i found out i was expecting on 12 21
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4541337 tn?1364850200
Irresponsable unprotected drunk sex with my now x bf.
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1035252 tn?1427227833
First time was an oops on birth control, miscarried..babies 1, 2, and 3 ( now 4 years, 2 1/2 years, and 10 months) were planned for and all were conceived our first cycle trying...but baby 4 (15 wks pregnant now ) was a total surprise and an oops. But a blessing nonetheless!
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I didnt think i could have a baby we had been trying for 10 mths. Then we got engaged 12 12 and i found out i was expecting on 12 21
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4592444 tn?1362029703
First time, we were fooling around and I told him to grab a condom and he didn't. I lost that baby at 18 weeks. Second time, with my daughter, we had really passionate sex after working out, and the condom snapped. I guess my birth control failed too. This time, we were running late for work, and figured that just once without a condom couldn't hurt. Lol
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4584876 tn?1358994031
Wasn't planning but definitely wasn't preventing!
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I have the Paragard IUD and it failed and now I'm 18weeks pregnant. I think god has a reason for this cause its rare for this be prego but I couldn't be more excited now for another baby.
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febmama2013, That is so awsome! some other girl wrote the same on this post i thought it was  so cool! (=
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Just thought I might add, I concevied on my birthday and I'm due on my partners birthday Good timing lol
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4191640 tn?1361174727
My pregnancy ended up from pre-***. But we had times where he wouldn't pull out at all so we weren't really preventing It either. We've been together for almost three years and within a year and a half together (after I stopped BC) we weren't bein' careful, but I always started my period so we thought we were okay, until Aug. 2012 lol. Even If my baby boy wasn't planned, I still love him soooo much and wouldn't change gettin' pregnant for anythin'.
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***we had been good friends for 5 years before we started dating lol
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After a week of dating ...my boyfriend at the time and i decided we wanted a family together and concieved that week lol...we have now been married 3 months and i will be 6 months prego on sunday :)
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My bf and I were using condoms for the first couple months but no birth control, slowly it got to the point where he would start out with no condom then put one on, then he just started pulling out, one night he said "let me *** inside you," I said ok, as soon as we were done we went outside to smoke a cigarette and we were totally silent until finally I wad like "welp....I feel impregnated." lol. Turns out I was. Haha. So not really planned but we have both admitted that deep down we both kinda tried to get pregnant because we wanted that happiness from a child..
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4759095 tn?1360527394
Definately planned both pregnancies. Used donor sperm with iui (intra unterine insemination). Mr. Right and i havent crossed paths yet and want to he done having kids by 30 yo bc of my health. Cant wait for my daughters little brother or sister to arrive in aug!!
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It was the day after my.man's bday i was ovulating on his bday and we werent using protection bc if it happened we were gonna be happy and it did that was Nov 9 2012 Now I'm 13 wks preg today:)
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pre ***!! u CAN  get prego off it me 26 weeks loving my lil man!
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Planned :) We just heated and in that moment knew what we wanted.. it was the most romantic moment of my life.. and 4 weeks later i was pregnant.. Its brought us so much closer then i thought we ever could be and i couldn't be happier.. having a little girl due date March 7th!
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3588173 tn?1357317184
My husband is in the marines and at the end of april he had to do some field training for two weeks so I went back to my parents house for that time...I got pregnant the night he returned home. It wasn't planned, prevented, or expected lol but now I have the most handsome four wk old to show for:)
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2863077 tn?1436670789
We were trying, now 10 days until my due date with baby girl!
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I was told I would never have children due to medical reason. With my first I came back to my home town to party with my best friend for her 19 bday. I got super drunk and had unprotected sex with one of her friends. I like to call him a sperm donar cause he took off after I told him I was pregnant and keeping,my baby. This one was planned with my fiance. It took us 2 months to conceive.
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So after having sex with my bf for like 3 years already & he always came in me, made me think that i couldn't possibly get pregnant . I've had thyroid problems since i was first born. I have to take like hormones pills my entire life & my mom said that there might be no possibility for me to get pregnant & if i do, i could die especially being 17 cus im still too young & due to my thyroid i couldn't be able to deliver a baby right. But in my mind i somehow knew that i can. I was so childish & risked it & at five weeks i found out. I had missed my period. My bf knew somehow that i was pregnant forsure & i kept saying "no im not" i guess i didnt wanna believe. Those 5 weeks were torture to me. Thats why he thought i was. I was REALLY sick . I didn't think it was morning sickness . I was worse than that. I couldn't get up, eat, nothing. I thought i was dying. Then around 5 weeks i managed to get up & go to the store. Bought two preg tests to be sure. Bam! Both positive. Next day went to get a free preg test at the clinic. Bam! Told me i was prob 4-6 weeks. That same day me & my bf couldn't believe it, so we went to buy two more. Bam! Both positive! That when i knew i was. Me & him not so excited,  Me really really sick made us get an abortion at 7 weeks :( my little angel is looking over us now.
Now we know i can get preg & were not riskinh it again till were both ready. :)
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4411499 tn?1356051765
Got way to drunk with a so called friend. My period wouldn't come I thought it was due to stress just for the heck of it I took the test. now im 16 Weeks pregnant single mom and loving my lil one every day more.
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Yupp I became pregnant because of pre ***! Haha I'm just very fertile. We didn't use protection either because he's allergic. Fertile and allergies are a bad combo!
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I was off the pill for a mere 3 days simply because I couldn't make it by the pharmacy to pick up my prescription of BC. We did the sexy time & BAM! That month I only bled one day really light, and 3 days ago I got a positive pregnancy test. Was scared at first, but getting to be excited now :) stil nervous however since this is my FIRST pregnancy <3
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