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Im a loner?

I need friends! I feel so alone. Im cooped up at home all day. My husband has fine hours for work and all but when he gets home its the same. His days off is the only days we MAYBE go out and do something. Ugh! The only friend I use to go out with moved and now barely has time for me cause she has a new job so I havent even spoken to her since. The only other friend I talk to just had her baby and id love to have mommy friends but she moved a whole ago and lives out if state :/ blahg.
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I would babs, but I don't have facebook:( x
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Hey people I made a group on fb which is private for october momies we all can talk to each othere their...ifnot thats okay too! :)
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Lol yeah it can be like that here as well. My husband drives a taxi for a living, so his hours can be all over he place. Sometimes I wonder when I will next see him but when he is home, he spends all his time with the kids and doesn't spare 5 minutes for me. I am not complaining really because at least the kids get to spend time with him. I try to sit with him and when I do, he tells me that this needs doing or whether I can do dinner. So I don't really try to spend time with him. I understand that you want him to think that you love him, I am the same as well lol... it can be difficult at times though lol. Xx
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Well he mostly watches tv and there are days he ignores me for no reason but I do my best to soend what I can with him because I want him to seeni love him and spending time together is important to me. Other than that when he is at work im all alone in this house waiting and telling my baby she needsto come out already! Lol
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No one deserves to be alone. Just my luck I married and had kids with someone who likes to be the one in control... On the plus side at least your husband wants to spend time with you, I just seem to be at his beck and call. Stupid really. Hopefully things will get a lot better for the twe of is:) xx
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Oh no I know :) I was just saying thats one reason Im probably a loner haha
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I totally agree with you and I wasn't meaning that your partner is like that. All I am trying to say I understand how you feel sometimes. Xx
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Sac, Ca.
@MrsBlackCat im 20 with a babygirl on the way. This is our first. I dont let my husband control what and when i can do things but when he is home i feel the need to spend time with him.
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You and I are the same babe. I stay at home all day everyday with the two kids and obviously the one on the way and I am only 19. My husband decides when I can go out and who I see and talk too. I know people think I am stupid for letting it be like that but I was brought up like it anyway so I know no different.
I have no family to talk too or friends. Just my husband and two kids. So I know what it's like. If need to talk babe, you can always send me a message. Xx
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What part of cali I'm from cali too :)
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Lol. Same. I mean I talk to my family and see them when I do but I mean I feel all alone here at home with my husband, like I have no friends lol
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Oh ok, i live in NY.....we can be loners together haha, i don't really hang out or talk to anyone except my boyfriend, son and family anymore.
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CA
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What state do you live in
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