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Lesbian pregnant GF stopped loving me! HELP

Im a woman in my 30s and my girlfriend is 28, we have been together for 6 months and she decided to get preg, i was so supportive and was really excited  that she wanted to have a baby. everything seemed so perfect and we really fell for each other, we spent every night together and did everything with each other. i was honestly living the best days of my life, better than any relationship i previously was in.

the moment she got pregnant she changed. and she stopped visiting, rarely texted and her calls have decreased. and i felt like whatevery i do doesnt seem to make her happy. as if she just fell out of love. i tried talking to her to understand whats going on but she was just telling me that im being a drama queen. 2 weeks back i visited her late at night and she cuddling and kissing me and we actually made love. the second morning everything went back to how it was! until i told her i think we are done. the moment i said that she told me that she cant explain the way she feels towards me and said that i litterally was her source of comfort and joy before she got pregnant but now she doesnt feel the same anymore. and she told me its just a matter of time.

Shes 10 weeks pregnant now. i do not want to break up. i really love this woman, its like we were meant to be with each other. and i hope what shes going through is just hormonal. please guide me on how to make this work.

thank you!
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Also just be tentive to her. She may not want your company or your affection right now but get her craving foods, buy her some comfy PJs , make her dinner and other things like that to make things easier on her without her feeling the pressure of affection. I know that's what worked with me and my husband. I was bawling out crying because my scrunchies broke and he went out got me a whole pack lol, got me a snow cone and put Netflix on for me and sat quietly through 5 hours of bridezillas. I love that man, even though I swear I can smell him as I'm writing this (:
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Tbh it could be her hormones. I know personally, as many women on here might agree, when it comes to our husbands/partners etc, we can't stand them half the time.
Yesterday my husband when to give me a kiss and it made my Stomach turn, I swear since I got pregnant he has forever smelled like onions and morning breath (and I had morning sickness bad from the sight of any onion), I don't want him touching me unless its for sex which I can't get enough of...yet still don't want to smell him in the process lol. I really think it might be her hormones considering she still loves you and sees comfort in you.
Hormones are no joke and the first trimester is even more crazier than the next 2. Hopefully as she's further along shell want to be with you more because eventually the hormones do even out...I'm 33 weeks and still don't want my husband touching me half the time but every woman is different
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