Miscarriage and devastated

[Mariantiko]

When I found out that I was pregnant a week ago I was 5 months and my husband and I were so happy the very next day I started bleeding I had light cramps and back pain I went to the er that very day the doctor there drew blood out and they didn't verify that I had lost the baby when they did the ultra sound they didn't see anything they said it could of been too early to detect the baby so the very next day we went to the clinic the gyno that was assigned to me was very rude and said not to worry that bleeding doesn't mean anything that I had nothing to worry about, at the clinic they drew blood out aswell, today in the morning I went to the clinic and my hgc levels had gone down more than half, this hurts so much knowing that I hurt my baby that my husband and I had been trying for for about 8 months I and I have to go back to the clinic so that the gyno cab confirm my miscarriage, this hurts so bad that I honest wishes I had never found out I had only half a day to enjoy my pregnancy and have my little angel taken away from me I just wish I had someone to vent on, my husband is very supportive and sys we can try again but he doesn't know how much it hurts to know that you were going to be a mother and have that taken away from you so fast, all my mother says is that god does things for a reason and that if he was already going to take my baby angel away from me it wd better that it was now that I didn't know my little angel than later having known the baby and held it and have it taken away from me then that I would be far more devastated, I hate this feeling though I hate it.

[Turnersmommy]

I was like ashdensmommy and Thought of my grandmother taking care of our angel baby in heaven. I thought of how she could hold her,love her and cuddle her until we got there to do it. My doctor, mother husband had said it was for the best since something could have been wrong but I didn't care what they said and all I heard constantly was that it happens more than you think. I didn't care that it happened to lots of ppl.. I cares that it happened to ME. It took me a long time to not be so angry, it took one of my closest friend losing her baby for me to see how traumatic it is for everyone, not just me. I got to help her through it and slowly see how ppl are affected by this. Just keep close to your husband and lean on each other.

[chacha303]

I know how you feel also. Last year I was 3 months when I lost my baby. Im so.sorry that you had to deal with that pain :(

[expectingababygirl]

I am sorry for your lost!! Last year in may i lost my baby to it was the hardest thing i have ever gone true i was 5 month's and my water just broke and my little angel didn't make it :(
But this year god has blessed me with a little girl i am 27 weeks now and praying that everything goes well.... i know how you fell its devastating to lose your little baby your going to need alot of emotional support from your husband and family i wish you all the best may god bless you and and give you the strength to get you true this hard time!!

[ashdensmommy]

Almost 1 year ago i felt the same way for the first time in my life. i had the questions, the hate, the thoughts of what i could have done. i hated to hear that there were other plans for me and that it was better off because something was wrong with my baby. still to this day i say there was nothing wrong with my angel baby that it was the stress from my fiance and i arguing that had triggered the loss because after a big fight it was only 3 days later. well since i lost my first baby, i have had 2 friends lose their babies and i have been able to help them in this. I also realized that my fiance hurt just as much as i did and still do. We never talk about it much but when we do, he has so much pain and anger toward himself that it hurts me more. he loves our baby just as much as i do. you have to be strong though because you do have a baby still needing your strength and support. i told myself to be strong and prayed that my grandmother watch over my baby until the day i can finally be there. Just be strong for yourself and no matter how hard it is, work through this your your man together, he needs you at this time just as much as you need him. he is probably trying to hide his pain to help you build your strength but deep insode this is very hard for him. i will be thinking about you and praying for you! XoXo <3

[Turnersmommy]

I'm so sorry for your loss! I know all too well what you are feeling. You aren't alone even though I KNOW you feel like you are. It hurts so bad and you just can't understand the reasoning.. I was so angry when we lost our sweet baby. I was mad bc I felt my husband didn't understand at all even though he tried, and I was mad at all of these people that could have babies with no problem. I pray for strength every night and I have eventually gotten strength to help me deal. It will get better in time sweetie. Just pray and stick close to your husband for support. I cried myself to sleep every single night for months, then a couple nights a week for a year. It's hard. You feel no one understands, but we do.. My husband and I both just knew our baby was a girl... So we named her and pray to her nightly. That helped a lot. Let your body recover and try again when YOU are ready. God has a bigger plan for you, and it will get better, I promise! Until then though, I'm sending lots of love, hugs and prayers your way! I hope you find strength And comfort when you need it most!

[Mariantiko]

I'm sorry about that not 5 months I was 5 weeks