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My BF never wants sex?

Ever since I got pregnant he just doesn't want it! He says he's stressed out from work and tired.. Which is believable. He says it doesn't weird him out that I'm pregnant and my baby bump isn't a issue and that I'm still just as sexy yet he doesn't want it! I really don't see him cheating..  But now that I'm pregnant I want it even more than usual.. lol. I think we've had sex once in the last two weeks? I'm trying to be understanding but it has left me feeling unwanted and neglected :( what do I do?
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My boyfriend is the same way. I think the reason is because it feels different to them.& it's not as fun because they have to think about not going so rough and etc. they don't wanna do something that isn't gonna satisfy the both of you. Once I'm not pregnant he goes crazy lol. It'll pass once baby is out. Don't worry to much about it now...
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Don't build his temporary lack of interest into a big drama of you "feeling unwanted and neglected."  There is more to relationships than sex.  

To test the idea that he is getting cold feet on the relationship (which it sounds like is what you are worried about), gently let him know you are still interested in sex, and ask if he will sometime tell you for sure what is going on that he is not, and then leave it at that.
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