NEED HELP!!!! ISSUES- 23WEEKS! :/

[llalnvega10]

Ok, so me and my husband are having our third child a boy on July 19. (scheduled csection) im 23weeks and we are debating names. middle names. i named our first two. averie alisyn and logan jase. and for the third i want Noah James but he wants Noah David :/ i dont like the name david because thats his "dads" name and his dad is a dead beat... to him. he likes his other 3bros. watever whole diff story but am i wrong for again picking the name for our child??

[beck0029]

We wrote a list of names and then compared. It was a great method. But We've chosen my partners family names, because my family names will be carried on by my brothers.
I feel it should be a joint choice,
Yes the mother carries the child for nine months but in the scheme of time for an entire child's life you will both hopefully have a lot of joint input parenting wise.  I can b understand you not favouring David, is there another family name??
Hope this is helpful. Best of luck

[Sharonaclarisse23]

Personally you carried the baby for 9 months you should have a little more say i think

[llalnvega10]

bump.

[llalnvega10]

@danni1415 hmm. good idea. never thought of that!

[Danni1415]

Maybe you 2 should both go on a baby name site and make your own lists.. Print them out and give them to each other to look at.. Maybe there will be another name you 2 have in common..