NEED HELP!!!!

[sarahiy08]

Hello everyone,

This is my first time on this so please bare with me.  I'm losing my mind asking myself what's going on. this all started last month. My period was suppose to come on the 25th of jan. On jan 25 all did was spot all day, color being light red. the next day i bleed al little bit and from there no blood. later on that night i got home and was getting ready for bed, and i felt this bad cramp and went to the bathroom. this glot of blood came out. this may sound nasty, but, i grabbed it to look at it and it was vry thick and red. no blood after that or anything. This month my period is suppose to be here today the 22 of feb. On the 20 i had this brownish spotting and the 21 i spotted all day light pink. today's the 22 and i spotted all day but this time it was light red. I have never been pregnant before, to my knowledge, but now im thinking 1 if i had a miscarriage last month and 2 am i pregnant this month. I am having unprotected sex with my boyfriend. and since last month we have been very active. please help cause i dont know what to think.

[gillianl]

you can't be 100% sure you had a miscarriage, i have a lot of heacy clotted bleeding and have never had a miscarriage i know this because if the tests doctors have done on me.  I feel you should stop panicking and stressing, most women have brown spotting/discharge which leads to light pink then red myself included.  If you have only just started ttc your body could be adjusting as it doesn't detect contraception in your system anymore.  The only way to know if you are pregnant is to test after missed AF or a blood test from the docs to check your HCG levels

[sarahiy08]

thanks for the response. I dont think a hpt will work for me. i took one twice last month and it came back neg and yet i think i went thru a miscarriage.

[sarahiy08]

I'm not going to lie, i'm scared of the results. I took a hpt last month and it came back neg, but, then look what happened with the clot. when do u think is the best time to take a test.

[nickieb85]

Well really the only thing you can do is take a home pregnancy test or go see an obgyn and have them do a blood test (which are way more accurate even if you are not very far into your pregnancy)... I have no idea what would be causing your spotting but it is definitely an issue that should be handled by a doctor.

[jrobertson20]

I would take a pregnancy test and see what happens.  Also I would call you MD because two cycles in a row like that should be seen by a doctor.  Good luck.