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My gf is 14 and should be 13weeks pregnant but she doesnt think she is anymore because she took a test and it came up negative but she still sleeps all the time and is always tired and her stomach has gotten bigger she had all the early signs but they went away around week 11 i dont no wat signs she can have at week 13 but its scaring the hell out of me could she be pregnant and what are the signs plz someone help me i really want to be a daddy
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Don't mean to be ride but I believe in Pure Honesty and Honestly she is Way to young to be having a baby. I believe you guys should have waited, how've that being said I think she needs to go see a doctor and get a blood test and if she is take the proper steps to having a healthy baby. I Wish You both The Best
Im curious about what happened did she have the baby? Did she stop drinking? Did yall get married? Sorry im being nosey but im only human lol
Fair play to u mate coming on here seeking advice .... Yeah fair enough abit young but my mate was 14 and the dad was 17 another mate was 14 dad was 15 I was 16 and my girls dad was 22 people. Look at age as she still got the school girl tag if she was old would be different pfft it's crap I was with 18-20 year olds between the ages of 14-16 congrats on you both and you will make grey parents ! It's Easter being young and having a child as you still have all the energy and time to do what you want with your child I found it Easyer being young and also Easyer labour I slept through mine and both my mates sed they thought it would hurt a lot more but didn't ! To all the haters let them hate just keep you her and bump happy all that matter :)
I don't know where lovelost lives but in Illinois, where I live, the LEGAL age to consent was lowered to 17 (for both parties) as long as one does not have any authority over the other, such as a teacher, teacher's aide, coach, etc.
Hiyaa am. Not bein horrible but I don't think its rite two be havin sex at the age off 14 am 20 and got two kids I didn't sleep with anyone till I was 16 and am still with the same person now we have been together for 3years now got my own place !! Its really hard bein a mum. I stuffered with post natural depression with both off my child my 1st pregnancy I had my little girl 3months early so It was really hard for me I woudnt wish it on anyone a young child needs love care its not all about money you have two make sure u keep up with there jabs at the doctors teethin,keepin you up at night its hard !
hi im fourteen i just had a baby on november 3 and i wanted to get pregnant and have the baby. shes the love of my life and if you and your girlfriend want to have a baby i say go for. all my pregnancy people kind of scared me on making me think i wouldnt be able to handle it and you know what god doesnt give you more than you can handle as long as you under stand that babies are a handful i think you can be ok but also after childbirth you girl may need you as much as the baby so be prepared but when it gets tough remember what doesnt kill you makes you stronger
congrats and good luck. this is the first time i seen this. did you get her to strn up?
I didnt even take the time to read the last 25 of the posts so this might have already been said... but im gunna say it again..
WHY IN THE WORLD IS IT SO EASY FOR KIDS TO GET PREGNANT BUT WHEN A NICE, LOVING, AND SUPPORTIVE FAMILY TTC.. IT TAKES FOREVER.... IF IT EVEN HAPPENS. I hear on the news every single day of another baby being kidnapped, abused, killed, or stuffed in a dumpster. Why is the world this way? Why do people want so bad to have a baby but when it comes cant face the responsibilities and give the baby up or kill it. This might be a little harsh.. but lovelost will know what we all were trying to say once the baby gets here. It even sounds like he might be the only one there for the baby. If pregnancy has gotten him so stressed out he cant keep his story straight.... then think what of what a real baby is going to do to him. And even worse, if the baby is born with FAS then it will be a bigger responsibility. He will see.... We were all kids once, and some, including me, made huge mistakes... The only sad thing with this story is that they will never know what it would be like to live out their childhood days. I was in a very abusive relationship for 3 years (from the time I turned 14 till I was 17) I missed out on alot. I never went to prom, never graduated high school, and never enjoyed the pleasures of being stress free. Im just glad I didnt have a baby with the retard I was with then... even though he wanted to.
Lovelost- Even though you think all of these women on here are horrible and ******* for talking to you the way they did, you need to listen. We are all here to answer your questions... Most of us have been through the ups and downs of ttc and of miscarriages. You are here for help and that is what we are giving you. Im sorry that this is not what you want to hear, but as you mature, you will realize that life isnt fair and you dont always get what you want. The best advice you can hear, EVER, will come from your parents. Talk to them, Im sure they would love to hear what you have to say. And they might be mad at first... but they love you and they will do anything to help you. Please talk to them. It will make you feel alot better, not to mention relieve most of your stress.
WHY IN THE WORLD IS IT SO EASY FOR KIDS TO GET PREGNANT BUT WHEN A NICE, LOVING, AND SUPPORTIVE FAMILY TTC.. IT TAKES FOREVER.... IF IT EVEN HAPPENS. I hear on the news every single day of another baby being kidnapped, abused, killed, or stuffed in a dumpster. Why is the world this way? Why do people want so bad to have a baby but when it comes cant face the responsibilities and give the baby up or kill it. This might be a little harsh.. but lovelost will know what we all were trying to say once the baby gets here. It even sounds like he might be the only one there for the baby. If pregnancy has gotten him so stressed out he cant keep his story straight.... then think what of what a real baby is going to do to him. And even worse, if the baby is born with FAS then it will be a bigger responsibility. He will see.... We were all kids once, and some, including me, made huge mistakes... The only sad thing with this story is that they will never know what it would be like to live out their childhood days. I was in a very abusive relationship for 3 years (from the time I turned 14 till I was 17) I missed out on alot. I never went to prom, never graduated high school, and never enjoyed the pleasures of being stress free. Im just glad I didnt have a baby with the retard I was with then... even though he wanted to.
Lovelost- Even though you think all of these women on here are horrible and ******* for talking to you the way they did, you need to listen. We are all here to answer your questions... Most of us have been through the ups and downs of ttc and of miscarriages. You are here for help and that is what we are giving you. Im sorry that this is not what you want to hear, but as you mature, you will realize that life isnt fair and you dont always get what you want. The best advice you can hear, EVER, will come from your parents. Talk to them, Im sure they would love to hear what you have to say. And they might be mad at first... but they love you and they will do anything to help you. Please talk to them. It will make you feel alot better, not to mention relieve most of your stress.
I'm not crazy, I'm not lying, went from girl friend to fiance' because I propose the other day she said yes. Her dad trusts me with her cuz it's not like I'm going to get her pregnant she already is when I said parents I was reffering to her dad and her moms dad aka grandpa yes ive sat down and talk to her about the drinking she has agreed to stop. she is seeing a doctor now as of yesterday and let me just say i have alot of **** on my mind right now ive been through hell the past 2 weeks so yea maybe thing i put on here didnt make much since but it IS all true but yea im done posting on this forum untill I have more ? about pregnacy cuz chances are i will. well later all
I understand your frustrations ladies.. And i'm very sorry you are both having a hard time. I understand also, completely that it's likely this is all made up, but in the slim chance it isn't, i just wanted to clarify everything at once. I also was taking into consideration what Gina said, maybe he just doesn't know how to type right.. there's some rather illiterate people out there, doesn't mean it's totally fake. And maybe he proposed to her? Hah!!! I don't know. i don't want to defend him any longer. I just want to let this one go peacefully but i had to add on here because darcy and gina to tell you both that i hope you guys get better luck in the future, truly.
Trust me...I know. My husband & I tried for a while to get pregnant, we finally did and than I miscarried a month after I found out. Than you hear of "girls" getting pregnant, drinking, smoking etc and having healthy babies...it frustrates me completely, but I just take it as it comes and realize everything happens for a reason and it's all about timing. And we are trying to get pregnant again..and it is difficult...so I completely understand where you're coming from. You have every right to feel what you're feeling. I wish you luck!
It's just very frustrating for me personally to see to kids being so wreckless when me and my husband have struggled for more than two years to have another baby!
Did anyone notice he went from "my girlfriend" to "my fiance"....strange story that isn't quite adding up. But that also doesn't mean that he's not some 17 year old who just doesn't know how to talk, type whatever. I think these forums are great...and it's wonderful that he felt comfortable enough to come on here and ask us experienced women questions, and on the other hand it's quite frustrating to some of us to hear such a story like this. But in the end, it's his life..whether it's a true story or not, we as individuals have a right to an opinion...and we also have the choice of replying to his threads or just ignoring them.
I post on another pregnancy website and there have been people banned for faking. There was one woman who claimed she was pregnant with twins and she got in a car accident, etc, etc. Well the administrators at the site investigated, probably had her IP address and found out where else she was posting and she had conflicting stories. She also had several inconsistencies in her story that just didn't add up. Like she would start this story on one website and then start it on another. Some people WANT ATTENTION. Which is why they do stuff like that, so it makes sense to me, even though it is a little wacko.
Which is why at this point, I don't believe this guy's story one bit. He has dragged it out this long. He says things to get reactions out of people, like that this "girlfriend" drinks, asking if they can still have sex, etc. He/She either wants attention, or he/she is bored, or they're crazy.
Which is why at this point, I don't believe this guy's story one bit. He has dragged it out this long. He says things to get reactions out of people, like that this "girlfriend" drinks, asking if they can still have sex, etc. He/She either wants attention, or he/she is bored, or they're crazy.
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