Not horny at all?

[Ms_ro]

Hi my first pregnancy with baby girl i was super horny I want it all the time. But this second pregnancy this time w/baby boy I'm not feeling it at all&my man get so frustrated:/ so I do just him HJ or ** lol I wonder if anybody experience this...?

[tasha_labruyere]

I dont have a sex drive really but what really.works and gets me going is hin starting it. Like.doing things that turn me on I cant just jump n bed lik I use too he has to start makin out with me n stuff! It suckkks!!

[dequanbynasir]

This is true. I have a 15yr old boy was not interested in sex at all while prego. Prego now at 33 with 2nd boy and no sex drive. But I put forth a force effort twice a week. Da man swear its every 5 wks. Guess it feels like when ur use to 5 times a week but we been together 11yrs so he understands.......#sometimes;)

[westernbabe]

I was the opposite with my son I wanted it all the time like non stop which I think is part of the reason he came early

[Ms_ro]

Thanks for all ur reply I'm glad I'm not the only one whose experiencing this lol! It's just weird that co-coincidence with a boy weird!! Hehe

[cnhauk]

I've got no sex drive either. Feel so bad for DH.. He doesnt say anything about it tho, he knows how uncomfortable and tired I am most of the time so he doesn't comment about it. I appoligize and he says it's fine. But I WANT to want to have sex! It's frustrsting..

[Ms_ro]

Lol yeh I try doing that I even watch porn so I can get in the mood but I get short of breath! Hahaha but yeh we went to get lubricated for the next time hehe. its so weird that happens to be preg with boy! Hmmm..?

[gokuangel]

I dont have my sex drive at ALL!! and its driving my BF crazy he swears the baby is a boy too but we dont find out till January! glad im not the only one i didnt think it would just go poof and i feel bad for my S/O we barely knew each when i found out so not a nice start to a relationship! But this is part of the PG stuff!

[leesha89]

2 girls for 1st children no sex drive at all  hated in being hugged. but 15 weeks now dont know what im having but ill want sex then do it then im not interested its quite bad..

[expectingmommy2012]

Lol. I am experiencing the same. My husband gets to mad when I push him off and tell him no. But sometimes I just force myself to do it to make him happy. Lol. One thing you could try is maybe think about one time where you guys were so hot in the moment. And see.if that sparks up anything. Or you could spice things up like make him to a striptease or something to try to get u in the mood. :-)

[RippedonScotch]

I'm not the only one.... thank goodness.  I just don't feel like it and I feel bad for my husband.  it's interesting that its all boys. I've got a feeling its a boy but i went to a psychic with friends one night and she said it was a girl. and then the string test thing said girl too.  

I'm not sure what I'm having yet.  We go on Tuesday for the anatomy scan but we are going to put the sex in an envelope and open it on Christmas morning together.  

[mommybear0710]

My first two (girls) I had a high sex drive, this one (boy) I'd rather not be touched.

[Ashelen]

interesting, i've noticed the same phenomenon! I was all about sex with my first pregnancy, and I had a girl. with my last pregnancy and this one, my drive has been very low...and they're both boy pregnancies.

interesting!

[megan210792]

im having the same thing. i was very sexually frustrated on my 1st who was a girl and im now carrying a boy and ive not been interested in sex at all since i got pregnant but i think with me its more cause im worried as i miscarried last xmas but it was only wen i had sex i bled otherwise i wouldn have known i miscarried as i didn bleed otherwise. so i think ive gone off sex cause of being afraid of losing the baby but ive become sexually frustrated the last couple of weeks but ive been advised by midwife not to have sex as i bleed everytime i do have it

[Ms_ro]

Haha thanks so much! :p

[psat]

yes i experianced this in 3 of my 5 pregnancys(funny they were boys too lol) its frustrating i know it does come back later into the pregnancy or i got my partner to rub my back and let me relax and then make his move so to speak lol and it worked a couple of times not always tho unfortunately for him lol at least you make the effort to relive him in other ways thats more than most women do including me lol
good luck and i hope u feel horny soon lmao x