Yeah, I think its so hard for them sometimes to go from mum to grandma. It did get a bit easier when baby was born because she had to wait to be offered to handle the baby and wait to be invited over but at the same time inwould call her when I wanted to ask something or was worried about something so I guess through setting boundaries she learnt what her role was and that she wasn't going to miss out. We gave a lot better relationship this time round. Hang in there!
Hopefully mine calms down too. I just don't know what to do with her anymore she's so sensitive anything I say she gets so offended I can't even talk to her anymore and yet she was the one telling me I have to stay home the first few weeks and I agree now she wants me to visit as much as possible
Mine was a little bit like that for a while. It was like everytime I wanted to do something different to how she did it she took it as a bit of a personal criticism of the way she raised me. She calmed down after I showed her how much things have changed since she had a newborn.