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2188958 tn?1346444891

Overwhelmed :/

Lately I feel like eveything is going down and so close to my sons due date. I feel so stressed out. Everything is going so wrong.first our only computer messes up, then the car needs new brakes and tires, now all of a sudden our dryer stops working. I can't take it anymore. We were barely making it as it is and now all our stuff is needing fixing. And idk where the he'll we are going to get the money to do all this. Our lease is almost done and the apartment is a mess. I know they are gonna charge us more.We hardly have any stuff for our baby boy. We own my MIL money still. I just can't take all this stress anymore. I know he Must be stress to he is the only one working, I just feel so stupid getting pregnant when we weren't financially ready. I should of worked and saved some money. Not that I regret my son he is my world but I just hate this right now. I can't sleep because all these thoughts and feelings are all my head right now and all I can do is cry. And I have no one to talk to about this if I talk to one of my sisters my entire family will now about it the next day and I can't handle that right now. I really thought this last month would go smooth without no problems. but I guess not. ;( sorry for the long vent.
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Wow i feel the same way, our car needs fixing,he's the only one working and he pays weekly for rides to work we have two other children together 2 and 7 we have so many bills, they have me on bed rest but i told them i have two kids that's impossible its do hard because i think about this every single day.
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2188958 tn?1346444891
Yeah it just not what I expected to happen so close to my due date. I hope that with taxes coming up it will help us a lot to just at least Get by alright. And fix the damn car because that's something that we really need. I wish I could talk to my hubby. He tells me the same thing and not to stress out but I can't help it. :/
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My bf and I are not fiancally ready either but he keeps telling me the that things happen for a reason. I personally haven't figure out the reason but I hope I will one day and I hope u will too
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2188958 tn?1346444891
Thank you so much. I'm starting to think about finding a job after my son is born but idk who will take care of him when I'm at work and most likely all thy money will go to child care. Which doesn't really make any sense and I don't want him to grow up with someone else other than me. Ugh I just hope it gets better.
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I completely understand what your going threw!! My soon to be husband is the only one working right now and we have a 18 month old girl and are expecting twins! Right now things are not easy financially but we keep saying God doesn't give us anything we can't handle and as soon as my six weeks are up I am finding a job that will help us for sure! Keep your head up some how everything will work out just keep your faith!!!!
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