Hello yona,
I am just reading your post.
What happened to you in the end?
yvonne
this is not a pro-life/abortion discussion, please keep that in mind and lower the judgmental tones, they are not helpful to anyone...the women above were simply expressing THEIR suggestions for alternatives, which is what you did as well, and everyone has a right to do that here as long as they are not attacking the OP.
~~~~~That being said...unfortunately you're in a tough position yona and I sincerely hope that you can find a solution. Is having the baby an option AT ALL or do you really need to find a safe way to terminate? Do you know of any friends that you can TRUST to help you find resources? there aren't any safe/proven ways to terminate a pregnancy at home through the use of foods, but I believe there are herbs that can induce abortions but they're REALLY not safe because without medical supervision it's impossible to know if everything is progressing correctly. your best alternative is (like the other ladies said) to travel somewhere that abortion is legal if you absolutely must terminate because it can be VERY dangerous if not done under supervision in a safe setting.
I'm sorry that you're so frightened and I hope that a solution presents itself, but seriously consider traveling somewhere that you can do this SAFELY because you don't want to kill yourself trying to avoid being killed! Good luck with whatever happens, and you can try researching the herbs but I really wouldn't recommend it for safety reasons.
Good luck.
There are no foods that will cause an abortion. There are medications that you could take by mouth that would cause an abortion, but those are probably not available to you since abortion is illegal in your country. As suggested above, you have a few alternatives. Either carry the baby for someone else to adopt or travel to a country where abortion is legal to have the procedure performed. Do not attempt to abort your baby yourself or have an unqualified person do it. You may damage your body for good or kill yourself in the process. I hope you make the right decision for you. Good luck.
My response will not be a popular one, but I must state what I believe at any rate.
You live in a country where you will be harshly judged for having a child or an abortion. is there anyway for you to leave there to a place where abortions are legal? Because, back alley abortions are dangerous, and taking herbs and teas are also very dangerous. But, you can try to abort, with certain teas and medicines. However, they may not work and only cause you to have a baby that may have multiple birth defects.
Pro-life woman are so quick to say-"have the baby," "keep it." But, there not in your situation. NO one wants to terminate a pregnancy but sometimes, the idea of being a mother is to overwhelming. These pro life woman will always say "keep it," or "put it up for adoption." But, are they gonna be there when a crowd stones you to death. OR are they gonna be there when in your 28 week of pregnancy your diagnosed with serious pregnancy complications and die. You made a huge mistake getting pregnant but, you should not have to be punished for the rest of your life. Woman, that want children don't understand what it is like to just decide to sacrifice your life and your reputation for a child you don't want. I do understand, it's a horrible choice, and you may regret it for the rest of your life. But, you might also ruin your life by having an unwanted child. If you do have an abortion, please do it soon. Because, the longer you wait the more baby like it will become. You should google miscarriage causes, I happen to know that there is a certain think with cats that causes miscarriage. So google it because I would hate to give you wrong directions.
Whatever the outcome, I understand your pain. Good luck
I agree with the ladies above. There is no known food that is going to cause you to abort. I am not sure how adoption would work in Iran but you definitely need to take care of yourself for the good of you and your growing baby. PLEASE consider adoption.
There is no food you could eat that would possibly give you an abortion to my knowledge. LIke AngellaHas2 said, consider adoption. If you do not want the baby then you could find someone who does want one.
Consider adoption. Many woman want children but can not have them.