Pretty bad

[Ashdub07]

My husband and I have split and it's been pretty nasty. We definitely exchanged some words, and I don't regret anything i said because he just verbally attacked me out of nowhere. I think that he has another girl already because he had been trying to make things work then all of a sudden he calls me white trash, although he is the one who was cheating. And now I'm pretty sure I just stressed myself into a miscarriage. I've been throwing up til I dry heave and severe abdominal pain and passing blood. No clots yet but its really painful. I have no one to watch my kids to let me go to the ER and I can't exactly take them with me to the hospital. Idk what to do from here.

[gatorgrl12]

Ugh my internet was down and I was sooo worried about you!!!!
I'm really happy your OK. And hope it remains that way!! Gosh he is ignorant. I'm so sorry brad Pitt couldn't father your children lol I get a little down about that to sometimes Angie's lucky lol
But anyways you have a distant but very wonderful support system in all of us. I know we can't help much but if words could lift you right out of that situation I think we would be doing a good job. If only it were that easy :/
Rest momma and focus on you and your children. Don't waste any more energy on him!

[babywhalen2]

Hey girl im glad to hear your doing ok. I always love reading ur posts, you are so encouraging to others. Keep your chin up girl, your a great mama, those kids and your baby need you. You are stronger than even you know. Props to the godfather, im glad your hudband has a friend who will be blunt up front and honest. Im prayin for ya, and hope it all works out the way its sposed to. Thanks for keeping us updated.

[KTowne]

i completely agree sml.. i hope you don't ever go back to him, i would never be able to forget all he's done if i were you. you'll be better without him!

[sandy_baby3oct6]

Way to go to the godfather! He  his *** chewed out big time maybe he'll step up to the plate again and take care of you guys I'm not saying like go back to him but maybe he'll start helping out more so you can get some rest for you and baby i really hope everything works out alright and he can at least come to terms with what a dipshit he is we are all praying for you honey stay healthy and stay strong :)

[sml143]

Lol you're funny..I hope he feels like a piece of sh*t now! That's really sweet of ur kids godfather to stick up for you, your husband really needed to hear that from someone, better it be from his good friend!

[Ashdub07]

Well you'll never guess what happened this morning. My kids godfather is best friends with my husband since they were teenagers and so this morning he called him and tore him up about abandoning his family in times of need and such (this is what his wife texted me) and then my husband started texting me at about 7:00 acting so worried about me and the baby. I told him to leave me alone right now because I'm so mad at him. Ugh. He is such a prick I can't believe he's the father of my kids. I wish I could go back and make like, oh, brad Pitt their father.

[GordonBaby]

Just take it easy....don't stress over him. Your so much better than him.

[sandy_baby3oct6]

Oh gosh i just read all this and I'm sitting here crying my eyes out for you!! I'm so glad you got up there and i fell like this is gonna get even harder now that your gonna have to rest a lot :( I'm so so sorry your going through all this alone buy you do have all of us here for you whenever you need us! Stay strong momma and f your husband i can't believe he would take vows with you and do everything he's been doing! I'm so sorry you have to go through all this but just keep telling yourself its gonna turn out for the better you can do this without him he doesn't deserve such a good woman and mother like you and he'll realize it one day!! And by then you'll be soooooo far past moved on he'll be one sorry *** mf good luck and please please keep us all updated with anything new that happens :)

[mireyAND]

Glad baby is ok!

[sml143]

Glad to hear baby is okay!! Now try to get some rest woman, we're here if you need us! :)

[Ashdub07]

Little one is doing ok, my placenta is starting to come off of my uterus so I need to lay low for a while. I'll have a follow up with my OB Friday. Thanks ladies for your support!

[GordonBaby]

Are you and babe okay?! I haven't been on and I'm like panicked a bit over you!!!! F*** him..what a jerk. Just hang in there luv. Your a strong woman....you can get through anything.

[Alexiafaye]

I really want to know if you're okay ;(

[abigailsmomma]

Hope everything is okay hunn!!

[katiemarie123]

Hope everything goes ok I'll keep you in my prayers!

[lady1876]

Hope all goes well hun

[mizy_g]

Just got to the ER with your babies and get yourself checked out

[sml143]

Awe that's sweet :) good luck hun..definitely saying a prayer for you and your little one!

[gatorgrl12]

Your in my prayers momma! Stay strong!

[Ashdub07]

I'm headed out now she even got her husband to drive me! :) I'll keep yall posted say a prayer!

[Ashdub07]

Yeah I'm at the old house. I am pretty sure the girls godmom is going to come watch them for me. She was trying to round up her kids. Hopefully the wee one is ok. :( I was really not looking forward to being a single mom. Lots of women do it and I'm sure I'll figure it out Thanks :)

[sml143]

@Gatorgrl is right, your strong mama! Keep us updated, I'm praying for you!

[gatorgrl12]

I litteraly like just posted about your disaperance!
Are you still at the old house and him at the new place. I'm so sorry your so alone right now. I wish I was close damnit I would baby sit! I can't believe he is being such an arrogant *** after him being the one to run his family off! I really hope your little one is okay :( just focus on your babies momma. Your strong. And can do this without him!!!

[Ashdub07]

Thanks. This just blows. Like if i shut my cell off it's the end of the world but he doesn't want to deal with me so he just shuts his off and I'm having a damn emergency. Crazy