I have been doing a lot of reading on lubricants as I am an avid user of KY jelly.. We always do foreplay but generally use a little bit to start then use a little bit on the tip of his penis, etc for easy insertion.
I have been hearing and reading about the potential for it to kill sperm, or make them immobile. I have also read about pre-seed and even the general use method (using the little tube to insert it) doesnt seem to be how we would use lubricant so I cant see how that would help. I am never dry on the inside (sorry tmi) and it is used for comfort purposes during the penetration portion but I dont know what to think....
I have been using KY jelly for years now (even a little with condoms), and when I conceived last time, I definitely was using it that time soo clearly its possible to get pregnant while using these products..
I am trying to keep myself sane by telling myself to keep doing what we have been doing until we encounter problems but its hard... I conceived last time without "trying" while using KY Jelly.
This will be the first month we are having sex without protection since the miscarriage so I cant really say that we have had issues with conceiving yet... especially since it says it can take up to a year to conceive.
What are people's thoughts here? An internal lubricant is not really what we are looking for sooo