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So iv about had it with my boyfriend of 10 years. He lost his job last week, has a couple of weeks left, im 3 weeks off having our second son. He new he was going to get sacked. Hes a sales rep and basicly works from home. Hes a drinker (not violent or abusive) and has been addicted to this facebook game for a few months now. Our poor son gets no attention from him other than to be told to be quiet. I look at him and think G yr a **** father. As pregnant as i am i still have to do everything around the house for my son and for him. I could kick myself for having kids to this looser.

Bub02 · Answer

Tonight he cooked me tea, but yeah hes totally ablivious to seeing the things that need to be done. Like picking things up off the ground wen he walks past them. (cause i just love bending over at the mo) Hel have to hand his lap top in any day now and then hel be stuffed wont be able to play this stupid game. Hel always ask if im ok and most of the time i cant answer cause it will cause an argument, and half the time i dont even know wats wrong with me. Most of the time i feel ok and happy but sumtimes i just want to cry and feel soooo sad and angry. Cant wait to feel normal again.

FamilyHope2 · Answer

I know how u feel and beloved me I know it *****.I'm 18 weeks pregnant with my second child and I'm trying really hard to look for a job and all he does is sit at home with no worries. Its frustrating! I know.Just do what you think its best for you and your children

mommyanddaddyd · Answer

Have you tried talking to him? Some guys are dense and don't get it till you explain it to them. If you have and still feel worked up do what you think is best for you and your babies. Maybe distance will be the key to fix him.

FirstTymeMommii · Answer

Ps. All the clothes shoes breastfeeding stuff crib sheets boppy play sets etc. All came from my refund check from school... none from him

FirstTymeMommii · Answer

I agree.... I am a full time student with no job. My EX bf, childs father, works full time. Next month I will be giving birth to my daughter. He has yet to get anything for my daughter. But can buy a 300$ tv and 80$ tv stand.... Smh I am so over him I left.... I loved him but was just so fed up... and I am happy it turned out the way it did... I did what was best for my daughter and I feel glad I did

mrsreeder2be · Answer

Leave then! It sounds like deep down inside that's what you want and you know that's what you want. Make yourself happy and give yourself and your sons the lives you deserve!!