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Sex hurts

im 37 weeks and my man wants sex all the time now it just hurts me i feel bad because after baby we are gunna be sex free atleast 6 weeks hes gunna be miserable any other moms think sex hurts ?  
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Lately I've found no need to have sex but its seriously causing issues in my relationship. I went threw a depression before me and the father of my child got back together and this is the biggest I've ever been so when it comes to sex and being pregnant I don't feel sexy one bit. I try to have sex at least once a week. Sometimes we do it more, but at least try giving it to him once a week. Because as men they are excited for the baby but don't really understand the pain or uncomfortableness we have during sex. Try different positions and if not head over to the freakier side of things and he will be content with that for a bit.
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I'm 34 weeks and it's not so much painful as uncomfortable, but my hubby has been really understanding and we try different positions. Either doggy style or me on top seems to be least uncomfortable because for the most part I can control how deep it goes in and all. I'm very glad you are one of the lucky ones (as am I) to have a man still interested.. but be careful and don't forget he does have needs too
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I'm 32 weeks. I have SPD pain in my pubic bone and sex hurts at first but I still try to have it a few times a week for his sake because we will be induced in 6 weeks and I know when baby comes sex is off for almost two months :/ so I feel your pain. its hard but try doggy or spooning. seems to be the only way that's not painful now.
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It hurts me sometimes but its more uncomfortable for me but I still give him some every night even when I'm not in the mood because when the baby comes he won't have any for awhile lol
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8464451 tn?1409883976
33 weeks here & sex hurts SO BAD. I feel bad because I haven't gave my hubby none for the same reason & after baby I won't be giving him any until after 6 weeks which ***** even more for him lol
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Ok so the fact that your men want to have sex is awesome! I'm only 5 months and I'm pretty sure my boyfriend has already lost interest.
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yea i feel really bad saying no but they dont feel our pain
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7732297 tn?1397446837
I cried last week while me and my boyfriend had sex because i was uncomfortable and in pain:/ he stopped and hasnt asked since lol i felt bad for crying because he didnt purposely hurt me and i shouldve asked him to stop way before it got that far but that was my mistake and i guess we'll just be waiting til after our twins our born to start that again.
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Yes.
I'm 37 weeks and lately it's just too much pressure, it feels uncomfortable and hurts. I feel bad saying no all the time but sometimes it's just too much :/
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I do find it uncomfortable think it becauses i cant get into the mood being the size of a whale lol my partner still wants it but rather then having sex try fooling around with eaxh other i found it alot better then sex. Hope that helps
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