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Should i stay???
Im so hurt nd lost nd sick that i cant breath eat or sleep cuz the only thing i do is cry.....my jerk husband cheated on me for a very long time nd its been 4 months sense i found out he tells me he loves me nd our 3month old baby nd he wants to spend the rest of his life wit me..but he keeps on lying to me he talks to her sees her nd tells me he doesnt..nd i love him too much but idk if we can ever work this out..what do you guys think i should do??
I am a muslim too as a muslim women in marriage you have rights too. I knw your confused as to what you want to do..do not rush it inshallah all will work out. There is no point of being in a marriage if ur not happy. Hope it works out for you. All the best.
Im muslim..turkish nd im from a very respectable family nd thats y i cant even tell my parents wat im going.through...idk im still thinking although i wanna leave i dont wanna leave either..gosh i hate my life right now..
It will hurt bt baby girl time is the best healer. You need to see how strong an wonderful you are an thar you deserve 100 times better. If you stay he will carry on an he will never change. Never let anyone disrespect you like that. Dont waste anymore time you dont wanna wake up yr from noow an realize yu wasted all ur youth an love on smeone whu never really loved you..tell ur selv u deserve better...you deserve better an yu will be better. Stay strong.
If he loved you so much he wouldn't have cheated with her men never change Don't stay with someone that doesn't no how wonderful you are ...find some one that will be faithful and give you the love you deserve xx
I could possibly have forgiven the actual cheating, what i couldnt put up with/cope with/ is the fact he clearly has not even a little bit of respect for you if he could carry on seeing her, speaking to her, associating with her etc.. How dare he! For me respect is everything and what he is doing to you and his child is totally disrespectful. You should at the very least DEMAND he stays away from this woman. And if he doesn't than you have your answer.
I agree that you should leave his ***. But if you decide to stay, go to her house, kick her a**, put ur man on lock down. If he wants to work it out he will take the consequences if his actions and deal with it. have all calls and texts come in your phone bill every month so that he knows he will get caught no matter what. But I would really suggest just leaving, your better off
My mom stayed with my dad for "us" and it was probably one of the wrist things she could of done. They fought all the time and it taught my brothers unhealthy ways to treat women. What is best for your child is to leave and not have to experience the most trusted and see you keep putting up with it.
Once a cheater, always a cheater. You deserve so much better and I agree on what Mizzztaylor said, you don't want that for your child to think It's okay to be like that. That doesn't mean he can't help you and financially support you, but I wouldn't want to be with a man that doesn't show you respect and hasn't even learned his lesson and continues to talk to her and even sees her! That's a big no no In my book. I wouldn't stay with him If I was you, but It's your decision.
The longer you stay the harder it will be. I'm in a situation where I was cheated on and liedbto for way too long and now I have an amazing fiancee but I have horrible trust issues,I'm always assuming the worst and getting mad but luckily he loves me enough to deal with it but its not fair to him
My bf cheated on me early on in my pregnancy. One thing you have to consider is that you don't want your daughter growing up thinking he is an example of how a man should treat her and you don't want her to watch him treat you with such disrespect and have her thinking it's ok for her to treat you that way as well. Its hard. It's so hard to leave someone you love and it's easy to stay especially when a child is involved but if he cheated and has continued to lie he's not going to stop. It will be worth it in the long run if you do leave. It will take some time but eventually you will heal and realize that your self respect is worth it. Good luck. Feel free to message me if you ever need further support.
He's clearly has no respect for you or his home. I'm going to tell you what this one guy told me no baby keep no man
Nd he is welling to do anything i ask him but tht **** lives like 10mins from our house too...i just dont k wat to do anymore
just because of a child that is no reason to stay i would never want my kids to grow up thinking that was the right way to treat a relationship
U r all right but in my culture is a shame u k..if i leave him its like my life will never be the same nd my baby will grow up wit out a fther
You also don't want your daughter to suffer in an unhealthy relationship as well. But I fully understand why u would stay.
I am not judging but I would be scared of getting a std or HIV through his cheating. If he's lying and cheating the question to you is do you think he's going to change. No one could tell you to leave or tell you about your man. My motto is Mi don't keep no man that don't want to be kept.
I would leave. It will probably be difficult for you to trust him especially if he keeps lying.
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