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Stillborn, labour story and need advice..

My due date was in the 14th of march, but unfortunately in the 2nd of march i found out my baby heart beat just stopped  at 38W 2d , i gave birth of him at the 5th of march, my birth was natural unlike my first daughter i neded emergency c section, my contractions started in the 4th of march at 4bm untill the 5th at 12bm of thursday i was finally 10cm the doctor asked me to start pushing but it was so hard with a dead baby! It took me 4 hours of pushing untill he fainally came out at 4bm  he was like an angel & so prefect , the problem was with the blacenta i'll take the results in my next apointment after 3 weeks from now, however, i want an advice from u girls, i have one baby girl she is 2 years &4 months old, my second pregnancy she was 1 year and i had miscarriage at 12W after 2 months i get preg with this one and i losed him too,
So my question is..

When is the best time to get pregnant again knowing that i'm very anemic & recoveing bc i neded 4 units of blood during my last labour ??!
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Pregwith3rd786@
I'm sorry for u honey , i hop your pregnancy goes well and u see your baby safe & healthy in your arms ,

I'll take your advice and i'll see my doctor as well , thanks alot my dear Xx
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I'm so Sorry for ur loss @zahra. I under stand your pain I have been through exact same situation last year august. I delivered a  srillborn baby girl at 38+2 weeks she weighed 6lb 12oz. It was really devastating not a days goes by I Dont think about her. I fell pregnant again after 4 months n now im 13 weeks. Hoping everything goes well for me this time round.
Before thinking about getting pregnant again u will need to b ready emotionally and physically. You can talk to your consultant about it aswel they will provide u with more advice. I'm really sorry for your loss again.
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Roxxxy915
Thanks to share your experience and i'm sorry to for your loss, i know it's so hard to loss your baby it's hurt me like you,, i hop your pregnancy go all well & u see your baby safe& healthy in your arms honey Xx

Ceri111
Thanks my dear , i'll do recover then try to get prego again..Xx

Thanks that really helped me girls..

Kisses
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Get your iron count up and let your mind and body heal then try again, I'm really sorry you had to go through that..I'm sending hugs xx
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Im so sorry for your loss. Ihave a 3yr old daughter & a 11month old babyboy. After my boy last yr ihad a miscarriage it was deff hard for me emotionally. Now im pregnant again im 17wks. Im so worried about every lil thing thinking about my previous miscarriage iwnt be calm til the baby is into my arms safe&sound. But anyways , isay wait 3months & your doc will give you vitamins w. extra , xtra iron cause thats what they did for me @the hospital w.the misscariage ihad ilost alot of blood as well & became weak ihad to b hooked on 2IV's.
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