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Trouble with gettting pregnant after two abortions

Hi i am 22 years old. My boyfriend of 24 years old lives with me.he is full german and i am half indian half persian(Indian persian). We have been together for smetime now and the last 2-3 months have been trying to get pregnant. I had two abortions with an x boyfriend 2 years ago. I had two abortions in the last 2 years.
It's been extremly hard on us both. I don't know if i should get checked  by a doctor. my periods have not been normal since the last aborton i had which was last November. it seems like i get my period every two weeks instead of once a month.now my period has not came this month yet, but we've still been trying to get pregnant. I am not sure what to do or wher to go from here because we have had intercourse almost everyday. And still no baby. I'm really depressed about it. I cried a lot. My boyfriend was also very sad about it.
Please email me back. I need help. i have no idea what to do.

-TheBeast5
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It depends how much scar tissue is in your uterus. If there is enough of it, no you won't be able to get pregnant.

Your best bet is to see an ob/gyn for testing to make sure you're still fertile.
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I have been with my boyfriend for almost 5 years now im 20 and my bf is 21. We have had two abortions in the last two to three years. The first termination was because we were not ready for a baby and the one in march, since the last one i have not had a normal period it comes a lil late than isnt bleeding as heavy as it usually would the doctor said the was retained product and nature will take its course and gave we medication for incase of infection because of the cramps i was having months pass and its the same i have the crampings and period is the same. My bf and i just bought a house and have jobs and i think it will be a good time soon and i really want a baby. Will i be able to fall pregnant?
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what is the question? how llong have you been trying? how old are you? how old is he? are your periods regular...have you see a fertility doctor?
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I had a abortion july 2004 and now me and my husband are trying to have a child.  There is 15 years different between us and we really want to have a child together.
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354373 tn?1299184526
When you say "abortion", I assume that you mean D&C???  You didn't abort a healthy pregnancy, did you?  Regardless, that's not abnormal....I had a D&C in Dec. and have been trying like mad over the past 3 months and am not pregnant.....It takes time.
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Abortions can cause many problems, therefore you need to see a doctor, especially considering your cycles/periods are abnormal. Sounds like something is going on with your body. You need to make sure you don't have an infection or something.
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326590 tn?1296062449
Well, not to point out the obvious, you just had an abortion with your ex in Nov. Is it not too soon after an abortion to conceive again. I would give it some time and make sure he's the right one.  
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