Venting! Definitely O'ing right now DH being a lazy bum!

[Mumita]

I think everything is back to normal after the in my body pretty quick after the m/c and I'm O'ing right now I feel it on my left ovary.  So I asked my dh "Babe, after all of this m/c mess do you want me to get pregnant again soon"  And he said "Yeah, why?"  so I told him I was ovulating (I'm such a dork, I should be sexier when I ask) anyway he was like "well I'm going to  the gym" and I said "Not right now! but soon like later tonight" and then he's like "I don't know!" and then I said "Do your manly duties and knock me up!" (I was totally joking) and then he's said "I'm not a sperm bank!"
Right now I'm laughing BUT it's not like we only have sex when I'm ovulating.  But the man only wants to  have sex on the weekends cause during the week he's either too busy or too tired.  Well guess what!? I don't necesarily O only on weekends!  What happened with the horny guy that I married?!

[Mumita]

Ok so, very TMI but here it goes:  I had to leave it 'till this morning 'cause of course after the gym last night he was "too tired" so this morning was sooo unsexy but we still did it.  It was like "making baby quickie" oh well...  I guess i'll leave the good sex for the weekends when we're not rushed to go to work.
Don't get me wrong, we have great sex, just not on the week days, so I have to do something to schedule my O's for a better time. ;)

[Hales20]

yes they can be dumb at times.

Dont get me wrong, we have a pretty good relationship when it comes to sex, but then there are times when im really keen & he is really tired and we end up having arguments over it as i always seem to be the one making the moves. We had a really big argument over this topic a few weeks back to the point that i was ready to leave!! or at least kick him outta the bed for the night!! LOL.... but that is men!! they do not work to the same ability as us woman. Geez they cant even talk & unload a dishwasher at the same time... what has this world come to?!

[evthing4reason]

I got so mad at dh on sunday when he wouldn't bd that i left the house and went shopping for a few hours and when i finally returned (after he phoned to tell me supper was ready) i explained why i was so upset and we STILL didn't have sex that night. men just don't get it

[babyscience]

Haha, I was the same way...my DH was like "why cant we just wait until tonight"....my response was "Well, we can do it now AND tonight"...HAHA!  I became crazy during ovulation times and each time I would prepare myself..."Dont be the crazy lady that forces your husband to sleep with you"....and you know what everytime I became that.  Dont worry, we all do it.  Men dont realize that we are only fertile for a day or so...and the other days we have sex with them around that time is just to ensure that we didnt miss our fertile time.  Haha, my DH would always say "I thought you ovulated two days ago!"  But we wouldnt have the baby today if it wasnt for my persistence!  Haha!

[Hales20]

haha you girls are so funny!!

well im am on CD16 today and have been having it every single night since CD9 (lucky me) but that is coz partner knows im around time of ovulating, if im not around time of ovulating then we will only do it about 4-5 times a week. Im not married so i guess i get it more huh?! But the only catch is that i seem to be the only one to make the move...... but that is men. Also i have been having a very unusual sex drive lately... am like a nymphomaniac (sp?) LOL that is what partner is calling me. He cant say that his misses doesnt give it to him.... :-D LOL

[mommyof3andhopefully4]

MEN!

Last night DH was exhausted and we were laying in bed watching TV.  Well, I was....he was trying not to doze off....so I looked over and asked him if he was BD and he said no.  I said, "Don't say I never try!"  He says he always has to make the first move...well, I tried and got turned down!  (I knew he would say no...I am always burned out after O-ing....lol!)  Poor thing, he gets it about 2-3 times a week.  He is by far deprived.  We have been married for a year.  He's lucky he gets it that much!  HAHAHA!

[JoyRenee]

Ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh do I understand! Not dissing the husband but seriously... am I the only one to initiate? I feel like, "Woo me, romance me, turn me on for once!" And you know what else? My husband wants another baby but if I tell him it's "fertile time" or even if I don't but try to get things going, he puts up a wall. It's like he senses it's O time and changes his mind. MAKE AN EFFORT! I have found that if I don't mention babies and ovulation he's more into having sex. Some of the time...

Ahhhh, feels good to vent!

[martikadragoon]

Mumita~ I COMPLETELY know how it is. And I'm younger than you. Dh was all for it up to 3-4X a week before we got married. then afterwards It went to 1X every two weeks for a while during marriage problems for the first year or so, then to 1-2X a week.

Then after I got pregnant it was like 3X a week.  Lately it's been waning, and 1X a week. But he usually want's it only on his days off.. that's it. And it's always when HE wants it, not when I do... (however) there've been a couple times I've caught him off guard and he liked it.. lol

MEN

[Mumita]

After we got married the tables turned, now I'm the sex starved one! :(  I kinda forgot how to be sexy.  AAAHHH!!!

[motherofan18month]

LOL..... my DH and i are just the opposite! he works a full time job and does side work everyday so weekends are our best bet, but no matter how tired he is he still wants to bd , but i dont allow it half the time.....he said that i used to be the horndog, but something happened to me after we got hitched....LOL!!!!!!!!