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blended families!!

My 2 year old daughters father was very abusive and into drinking and drugs I wasnt with him long when I found out I was pregnant .. I chose to break up after he almost killed us in a car crash but always felt bad cause I wasnt with the father of my child or got married.. Now I am 23 expecting my 2nd child with my boyfriend who Ive known and dated since I was 16 years old on and off he loves my daughter. . Question is do any of you feel bad that your kids have different dads??? Do you feel bad????
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I even married her sperm donor.
He had left 17 weeks into my pregnancy but came back right after she was born and concieved me to get married and back together with him.
I ended up leaving october 2011 when we just got married and together again in june 2011.
I did feel bad at first and even started up with him again in march 2012 but
I got over it when I realized he was never ever going grow up and get his **** together and be the dad he lead me to believe he'd be if he had the shot.

I started just wanting friend with benefits with his best friend's brother in law around my daughter first birthday(may 19,2012) but by the end of june 2012 we were dating and moved into together in September 2012. My daughter thinks that her daddy. He doesn't correct people when they assume she is. He older than her actual dad and me and even has a 12 year old from a previous relationship. I'm actually friends with his baby mother on facebook.
I'm now 20weeks+2 days with our first baby together.
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No, i dont feel bad at all. I have a 6 year old from a previous relationship and currently with a guy who is now my fiance, we have a 3 yr old together and expecting again. Whats to feel bad about? As long as your current man accepts your daughter as his own. My 6 yr old calls my fiance daddy and he calls him his son. Were a family. None of that should matter as long as its all in love.
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