can you get pregnant by this?

[john401]

hi this is a very stupid question to ask i know and yes i have had sex ed but i dont remember them saying anything about this that long ago my g/f was giving me a hanjob on my bed afterwhile i ejaculated in my pants i then waited 2-3mins and went and got changed wich took 3-4mins i dont remember touching my sperm andthen went back in my room and fingered my g/f 10-20mins later could she get pregnant even if i touched my sperm but was not wet? i didnt wash my hands but i know they where not wet and she is on birth control is there any risk at all?i heard you can get a girl pregnant this way buts is a very low risk and i heard no its not impossible i dont remember my fingers being dripping wet or anything i just may have slightly touched it when changing but was dry 5mins later and im pretty positive they where not wetat all when i fingered her thank you for your help i thank you alot

[john401]

ok thanks from now on ill wash my hands but ive been reading online about this question and i get yes you can get pregnant this way but very unlikely and i get you no you cant without intercourse and that sperm dies soon after it touches the air and i heard it dosent die after it touches the air and if my hands did touch the sperm and it was dry when i fingered her is the sperm still alive on my fingers? personally ive never heard of anyone getting pregnant like this until i read a couple of forums and maybe like 1 or 2 said they have heard of it i could maybe see a chance if my sperm was wet and happend right i ejaculated we have never had sex we want to wait till we are married and we dont want a kid until then thanks for your help

[onlyme27]

I think that your chances of getting her pregnant that way are very slim.  But just a little tip, try to always wash your hands before touching her down there.  You could cause her to have an infection if you have something on your fingers and then put them in her.  Maybe I am just a clean freak, but that is what I have my hubby do just to be safe.