did i have a miscarriage was i really pregnant

[babygirl12841]

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i am a mom of a 2 and a half year old i had a miscarriage when he was 5 months old. I have been trying to get pregnant now for about 5 months i took clomid first two months then skipped a month doc didnt want to give me anything that month i usually have to take provera to start my periods due to PCOS and irregular periods. then i took femera for one month and the next month i had a hsg test done were they run dye threw your tubes to make sure there is no blockage and there was not on the 13 of this month i took 4 different at home pregnancy tests which all showed faint positives was very excited and happy called the doc he ordered a blood test which would show my hcg levels came back preggo with a hcg level of 36.97 which ment i was only bout 2 weeks preggo he was not sure bout them numbers so ordered another hcg blood test 3 days later my numbers went down to a 34.36 they are supposed to double every 48 to 72 hours and mine dropped i was very worried i wanted that baby so bad he said that i could have just been ovulating i dont believe that why would 5 different test show a positive and a blood test if was not iono what do you think. anyway on sunday i start having a lot of back pain and cramping i started bleeding ALOT lots of blood clots iono if it was a miscarriage or not i believe it might have been. i went and had my hcg levels checked the next day and they were under a 2 not pregnant and went to the doctor he told me i may of had a chemical pregnancy miscarriage but since i am bleeding go ahead and take femera on the third day of bleeding for 5 days so am i bleeding because i had a miscarriage or is it a period and if it is because of miscarriage will the femera work this time i thought you had to wate till first normal period i am very confused please help sorry this was so long thought i should tell my whole storey so it could be understood better thank who ever reads this

[Clysta]

Normally it's a d&c you want to wait that long for. A natural miscarriage you can start trying again as soon as you'd like. Typically a month or so is only suggested so that you'll know when you conceived better and to allow the women to heal emotionally. With a d&c they scrape your uterine lining and you need time to allow it to heal.

[babygirl12841]

that is ny whole thing about this i have been doing some research online about all of this and everything says to wait at least one to three months before trying again SO WHY IS MY DOCTOR PUTTING ME ON FERTILITY PILLS ALREADY THIS SOON I AM NOT EVEN DONE BLEEDING FROM MY MISCARRIAGE I DONT UNDERSTAND

[jeninky30]

I agree with Clysta, it does indeed sound like you have miscarried.  I am so sorry that this has happened.  My doc suggests waiting at least 3 months after miscarriage so that your body can level itself out again.  Best of luck to you honey.  

[Clysta]

That does indeed sound like a miscarriage. Your body only produces elevated amounts of hCG like that while pregnant so you would have to have been. It sounds like a chemical pregnancy. Have you had other tests ran, such as progesterone? If it's low it could be a reason why you loose the pregnancy. I'm not too sure about the medicines though. I have no personal experience or knowledge about them and can't answer too well.