dont know what to do

[princess_erinn]

So I found out I was pregnant 2 weeks ago and of course I told my boyfriend. I was a little worried because we've only been dating since may. But we are always with eachother. I told him and he is just blaming me still and doesn't want anything to do with it but still wants to date me, I'm excited about having a baby and he's totally against the idea. He's 21 and told me the reason was because he doesn't want to tell his dad. At first I thought he was n shock but now Idk if he's going to open up... and Idk if there's anything I can do to make him open up a little, he said he still wants to be with me he just doesn't want a baby... Idk what to do because I really want this now  

[Buniiebaybii]

Him*******

[Buniiebaybii]

Its your baby. And if he's there or not. The baby is still yours. Don't let Jim get you down because of his feelings. Don't make a choice based on his feelings. He is young and may come around but if not you be this best mommy ever. Trust me if u get an abortion you will regret it. Your baby depends on you and only you. Good luck...

[princess_erinn]

I really hope he changes his mind he stopped telling me how stupid he thought it was so I think we're going n the right direction

[chelseaneddie]

He may come around. 21 is very young when speaking about most males. He's probley on shock. A heartbeat or sono may change that...

[marisol_jose]

I don't see how he still wants to be with you but doesn't want you to keep the baby . That's so immature. Why doesn't he want to tell his father?? Is he scared that daddy might "spank" him? Ughhhh! This really makes me cherish my husband and appreciate him because he loves our baby boy to death. Our son is 3 weeks now :).

[princess_erinn]

im not going to get an abortion i just want him to be there i dont understand how he can not want anything to do with his baby and still wanna date me it makes me so pissed off thinking about it but i like me alot so i just wish he would come around

[chelseaneddie]

This samething happened to my friend and she had the abortion like he wanted and she still regrets this 7 years later. Do what u want cause truth is he probley wont be around long anyway.  

[TC26]

I'm open to change he will come around and if he doesn't your having a beautiful baby don't let him take that much away from you. Hoping he comes around so you can have a happy pregnancy.

[katieleigh]

Do not let a man who could be out your life in a few months make this decision for you please! It takes two to tango even if the man just becomes a sperm doner you will have the best thing in the world :)

[stacey10]

well it is totally up to you, its your body and quite frankly its your baby, yes he helped but everything is going to happen to you. If he didnt want a baby he should have made sure that he was wearing a condom, I can understand that he may be abit hesitant to tell his family, but he really should "man-up"so to speak. Do not be coerced into doing anything you dont want to do, you could do as he wants and have a termination, and you two break up anyway, yes it is hard being a single mum, but being a mother is also extremely rewarding, have you told your family, and are they supportive, in all honesty if you have there support, that is all you need. Good luck and remember not to make any rash decisions that you will later regret