'down there' after birth

[amylouise267]

How close back to normal does it get ? My bf keeps saying that it will be wrecked after the baby's been through there. i know it'll be different but how much different ? :/  
odd question but if anyone has any kind of input would be good...

[amandajane88]

My hubby also says its better than before..it goes back to normal!

[marie8736]

My bf loves my vagina now he says its super tight.. I wondered the samething and he thinks after the baby my vaginas going to be loose.. SOOO after reading ur posts i hope i prove him wrong and hell see my vaginas tight again :).. He has friends who had babies and they told him the vaginas are looser so we will see.. I only have 3 more weeks till baby Giselle comes out :)

[buckwheatyz]

Lol. I'm 110 pounds prepregnancy and 117 pounds at 20 weeks and I have to say...I definitely have the same fear. I also have gestational diabetes and am running the risk of having a large baby...needless to say I'm freaking out thinking I will be able to pull my lady bits over my head. JK but you get my drift.

[sharichajewski]

I had second degree tearing and after our first my hubby said it was tighter and better then before. I noticed a few differences just by what positions worked for me before try didnt work for.me after so we just had to.experiment. But it does go back to normal.just may.be a bit different for.you.

[MeganHayden]

I went back to normal my husband said I was even tighter than the first time we had sex. It doesn't mess it up it will go back just fine :)

[StacyAl]

My husband said it's tighter now than before, and I tore.

[cadens_mommy]

In my case I didn't tare at all on the outside...I had two minor tares on the inside that didn't need stitches they were so small. so I guess it depends on your body.

[babywhalen2]

It goes back to normal after a few weeks...i tore pretty bad with my first, and it was fine...my husband says its better than it was before. We ll see after this one is born lol

[BabyTurnip]

apparently it gets tighter all over again lol I was worried about that too at first but in all seriousness I want four kids or at least try for four kids in my short little life and i don't care about what my vagina will look like......plus there are always worst vagina's out there....my hubby says he would prefer me having 10-20 babies natural then having the vagina of a hooker lol I'm sure it goes back to normal, because if it didn't men wouldn't want to do it all over again :)

[babynumber3in2013]

My husband also says that its better then before (we have two kids I'm pregnant with number 3)

[lisaerin86]

mine went back to normal (so the hubby says) and I tore and needed stitches with my first and had my second baby 5 wks ago.

[vrh123]

it goees back too normal,
my husband says it feels better than beforee.

[jLove1992]

My boyfriend has no complaints n ive had two kids now pregnant with our 3rd it goes back!

[Quiquita]

Do a lot of kegels during and after i heard it helps and i heard my boyfriend and his friend talkin and his friend said it felt normal after a few weeks

[blessedleticia]

I had 2 c sections so idk but ive heard it goes back pretty close to normal

[babydue07182013]

My boyfriend said that too and this is his third kid. I'm sure it goes somewhat back to the way it was. Of course it will never be totally the same though