drugs over baby

[daddyluvsmama]

I'm just feeling very streesed in my relationship. Because my partner is continueing to smoke weed we used to be daily weed smokers untill I got pregnant and then he went to jail for 3 months he's out now and is still wanting tp smoke I went to treatment to stop smoking and he says he will go too but when I got money he expects me to bye it for him it turns out to be a fight and he ends up getting what he wants I don't. Know how to. Make him relise. I'm serious and that baby comes first I told him today to smoke all he wants and I will leave him that he needs to make other liveing arrangements if that's what he wants. To do?? Am I over reacting?? Or is he takeing advantage of me

[jamesruss1]

That should answer the question.....Is my partner serious about our child? Stand your ground for yourself and the baby. Its a new life you 2 have made and its the most beautiful thing you 2 should cherish...tell him this " This is something we made together"

[dana4112]

I am in a similar situation. I stopped smoking coigs and weed when i became preg. Most giys dont realize what is growing in ir stomach until its norn. My bf is out of work on unemployment. After bills he has limited $ that i would think would be used for baby things. However it goes to weed and ciggarettes. Hes bought nothing for this baby and im due april 1st. Ive bought it all. But guys are immature and if we let them they absolutely will take advantage of us. Stay strong, dont give him $.   He should be giving u $. Remember, u r the one ur baby is going to depend on and he or she needs things more than ur bf needs weed. Good luck!

[nikki223]

he is taking advantage of you, congrats on getting clean. I've been in your exact situation, it *****. if you want any advice, or just to talk, message me...nikki