feeling down and blahhh

[mommyof2nowtp]

So irritated every time I get on fb all I see is something about my baby's dad gf and how much the family lives her how there all so close. I'm ready to just cut my self off completely don't even know if I want my baby around them after I've seen how they are.

[Arstone1]

I'm gonna agree with RockRose on this one girl. Just don't get too stressed or worried about it right now. Just stay away from stressful or dramatic people and you can worry about who you want around or who wants to even be around after your baby is here. :-)

[RockRose]

The big picture here,  that's SO WRONG,  is everyone is making it so easy on this man.  He got you pregnant and then left to be with another sex partner,  and his mother is very protective of that relationship instead of the relationship with the mother of his baby.  You're even protective of it.

This is completely backwards.  Everyone should be mad at him - his mother should be encouraging him to stay with you and raise his baby in an intact home,  you should be refusing to make this comfortable for the new sex partner, and she should be looking at him very critically and wondering how he could be this way,  and wondering if she's next to be impregnated and pushed out.

Never in the history of time have men had it so easy.  He can just go impregnate you and trilly on his merry way,  and you're trying to make nice with this stupid new girl who can't see the train is about to hit her the way it hit you.

His mother is old enough to know better than this.

Best wishes,  honey.  You don't have to make this man's  path so easy.  That's showing your child what he did is okay.  It's not.  It's irresponsible and vulgar.

[mommyto_bein2015]

I didn't read the previous comments I'm sorry! Time will come and everything will work itself out..

[mommyto_bein2015]

I'm speaking on behalf of bring in the other girls position. I understand your irritation, but have you talked to the girl yourself or are you judging based on facebook? Facebook can't tell you what a person is like in real life.. my boyfriends daughters mom hates me, she never gave me the benefit of the doubt even though here at our house I buy her daughter everything and be the best provider I can be. I've said to her face multiple times that I respect that she's the mother of his daughter but as soon as she's with whoever else she's talking about how horrible I am, when she hasn't even taken the time to get to know me.. I know how you feel, I completely get it, but she didn't force his family to like her, life just happens that way. Be the bigger and better person and soon enough you're going to find someone and their family will love you..

[respectbee]

I understand were your coming from especially after the mom asked for your OK if gf can join the baby shower and for her to act like she don't know you..you should really stay away and not even bother trying to get a long with them.they obviously haven't grew up yet and still want to be kids about everything so just worry about you and baby trust youll be just fine without them.

[mommyof2nowtp]

I just was trying to be nice I thought she knew about me so that's why I took the inetitive to tell her I'd like to meet her sometime if she wants to be involved with baby and that I had no problem at all with her. I just wanted us all to get along

[Valboom]

Why did you even have to reach out to the gf?! She has nothing to do, say about or with your baby. And you really did step on the line. You should not have messaged or try to reach out to her. Let her come to you. Respect is everything! You guys broke up for whatever reason, he obviously moved on, do the same. Your baby is coming don't let her or he come in this unhealthy relationship that you have or don't have with his family. Stay in your lane mama! God bless you!

[mommyof2nowtp]

And my baby's dad hasn't said nothing about it and I don't understand it'd like he's trying to keep our baby a secret idk if he'll even be I'd knocked when baby comes or if the mother will be now should I say something to him I'm not sure what to do

[mommyof2nowtp]

It really hurts just all of it the fact me trying to reach out to the gf being nice and respectful ruined mine and my baby's dad's mothers relationship and the fact that it's all going to affect baby in the long run. And not knowing what will be best for baby now because who knows how they'll be with baby if this is the way there all acting now

[WorkinMommy]

Yeah sounds like your taking all the right steps. Maybe they are the ones who need to grow up and realize they can't act childish and petty anymore. A baby is being brought into the world, and it's sad to think that precious gift is gonna have to suffer because im at ur e people can't get over there issues. The current gf prolly feels threatened because you and baby dad will have to be apart of each other's life forever. And it scares her.hand wants to be difficult

[mommyof2nowtp]

I'm trying really hard not to be bitter about things I didn't mind at all until I tried to reach out to the gf and tell her I didn't have a problem with her and if when baby comes and she'd like to be around him I'd like to meet her. According to my baby's dad she knew but Ig she didn't and my baby's dad mother msgd threatening to walk out my life. Said I was overstepping my boundaries blah blah the gf was basically rude said she don't know what I'm talking about that she ain't going no where she's grown and did she's gonna stand by her man and she's just letting it be known.. I was like omygosh

[WorkinMommy]

If your baby's father is gonna be there for the child then I think you should let him have that chance. You don't want your child to suffer and not know his dad just because yall didnt work out or because u don't like his current girlfriend. You have to be the mature one in the situation and do what's right for your baby. Its important for a child to know and be involved with their parents, that is of course the father is stepping up and wanting to be there