for those of u i was rude too, im now needing advice. MISCARRIAGE?

[Bayybii2010]

okay so my period startd like 4 days early which isnt usual for me, my periods are always regual n light n barely ne cramps. But now i been crampn very bad, bleeding so heavy its amazing im alive, or so i feel. Its tones of clots, and juss a constant heavy flow. What do u thnk?

[Bayybii2010]

nope. Well i was juss so worried so i went to the doc n it  was a chemical pregnancy. My body was under so much stress i culdnt hold the baby. The hormone level was very low and i wasnt even 2 full weeks yet. But im not sad now cus i no i want a baby with sumone who cares

[mami1323]

Yeah, he doesn't seem like a guy who really wants to be there.  

[Bayybii2010]

hes not my bf, he ditchd me after he tried to get me pregnant, he said hed be there  for the kid but not me. So i guess if i  was pregnant and lost the baby its gods way of sayn we shuldnt be a couple

[mami1323]

You and your boyfriend aren't meant to be?

[Bayybii2010]

yeah im over it, its a sign hhe and i arent meant to be.

[mami1323]

I'm a little confused because smjmekg is right, in your other post you stated you went to the hospital and they said you had a chemical pregnancy.  I don't think you can judge whether you had a miscarriage unless you actually get a doctor's opinion.  You may just want to look at this as a weird period.  This way you can move on without thinking that you were.

[frank_noahsmommy]

(((HUGS))) to you, I am sorry but it does sound like a miscarriage. Have you been to the Dr.???? I hope you feel better, take it easy until the bleeding has completely stopped. And if u start to soak a pad an hr or intense cramping, or a fever go to the ER. Keep us posted...Michelle

[renee82]

I am so sorry you had to experience this. You could have been prego but sometimes the egg does implant but once it starts progress your body may naturally let nature take its course because it wasnt planted in a very good spot. So this could be a bleesing in disguise, It my have been implanted father up in the tubes (and you diffidently dont want a tubal pregnancy) I was just telling my husband tonight about how God decide when he thinks your ready, My first one I was not ready for, my second I tried for a year and a half (they are 4 years apart). I finally got pregnent with the 2nd after I quit trying and forgot about it. TTC the 2nd for a year and a half, I got really depressed every month, I had a few of these "miscarriage" ,I wasnt sure what they were because I was already losing it before I got to the ultra sound but the test said BFP. and now here I am 18 months TTC #3. Good luck with everything and hope you feel better. AND life WILL get better

[Bayybii2010]

ya i guess. Im deffinitly getn on the shot. That way once i find mr rite and the 3 mnths on tha  round of shot is up i will supposidly get prego faster n easier

[mami1323]

All people experience things in life where we question why me. But things happen in our lives that make us grow as people and makes us stronger. One day you will get to be a mommy. You have plenty of time so you can have that to look forward to.

[smjmekg]

I know, but like I said your time will come. If the guy doesn't care about you, he may not have cared about your child. Maybe that's why it wasn't meant to be if you were in fact pregnant. Keep that in mind too, you may not have really been pregnant, it could just be a weird cycle. I get heavier bleeding some months and lighter others. I get lots of clots some months, and barely any other months. Don't let it get to you. Your time will come, just keep faith in God, He has a plan for us all.

[Bayybii2010]

im a huge blvr n god. I do blv that sayn cus the guy apparently dnt give 2 ***** bout me. It just hurts to thnk 4 like 2 wks i was considerd a momy!:(

[smjmekg]

Don't be scared and depressed. If it was a chemical pregnancy it's just your body's/God's (if you're a believer) way of saying it's not the right time. I know the whole "everything happens for a reason" isn't a favorite phrase for a lot of people, but I believe it. Keep your head up, your time to be a mother will come when it's supposed to. *HUGS*

[mami1323]

It will most likely subside in a few days. You will probably bleed longer if you are miscarrying than you would with a regular period. Continue taking something like extra strength midol for the cramping.

[Bayybii2010]

I will. Thanks. Im so scared and depresd

[smjmekg]

If it's gushing like that just keep an eye on it. If it gets worse or you start hurting I'd get checked out by a doctor.

[smjmekg]

It could very well have been a chemical pregnancy, but from what I've read, you're late for your period and may get a positive pregnancy test then you start to bleed like your period.

[Bayybii2010]

So u do thnk it was a chemical pregnwncy?

[Bayybii2010]

yeah maybe. As far as filling a pad. I am but i keep going to the bathroom and wiping and when i do it like gushes. Very gross. Im worried

[smjmekg]

In my opinion, if you're not bleeding to fill more than one pad an hour, I'd let your body do the work. If you start having bad pain I'd go to the ER. BUT my reasoning for saying this, is a chemical pregnancy is a miscarriage at a very early stage, and if you're not sure that's what it is, do you really want to know it is a miscarriage? That's another reason I decided to stop testing early (husband and I are trying for number 2). If I found out I was pregnant and it ended up being a chemical pregnancy, I don't think I'd want to know, I think not knowing would be better for me. BUT this isn't me we're talking about, it's you. If nothing terribly bad is happening where you think you need to see the doctor, it might be better that you don't know for sure.

[Bayybii2010]

no i never went in i juss calld n spoke to sum nurse. Do u thnk i shuld tell my sister and maybe go c a doc?

[smjmekg]

Didn't you say you went to the hospital and they said it was a chemical pregnancy? If they told you it was, then that would explain your clots, heavy bleeding, and the cramps.

[worrieddd612]

well without a doctor's opinion you never know for sure, but you said you saw a doc so if he/she said that you are miscarrying then that is what is happening. im sorry you are having to go through this.

[Bayybii2010]

And uterus. Everyone kept sayn that oh it sounds like ur period cus i had prego signs, but then the clots and bleeding startd so i knew sumthing was up