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1924164 tn?1328424673

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Hi I'm 17wks preggo. I had 2partners in the mnth i found out. Everytime i post my due date in pregg apps on my phone it says my concieved date was aug 19. My last menstrual period was july 28 n my due date may 11, 2012. I was only with one guy 19-21 but he says he's fixed but doesn't hve his papers that prove he is. Could he b the daddy then still. I was with the other guy on the 14th i think gotta check my calender i always kept track lol
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1924164 tn?1328424673
I have one is supportive the other is not beacaue i dnt wanna b with him. I know both want a test too so we will see when the time comes! Thank uuu
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Good luck & have a happy pregnancy! I pray you get all the help you need. Have you talked to both potential fathers?
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1924164 tn?1328424673
Thank you ladies sooo much!!
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1194973 tn?1385503904
Another reason it doesn't matter if he says he is fixed or not is 1-it's only his word, and anyone can lie and 2-many men don't go back for the follow up to make sure it was a success and their sperm count is 0. Vasectomy as a whole is very effective, more so than a ligation, so often it does not fail once it's been done and sperm count is 0.
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You'll need a DNA test. Either one could be the father. Being "fixed" doesn't rule him out even if he did have the surgery -- too many whoopses out there.
Sperm can survive in your body for up to a week, so if you had sex on the 14th and conceived around the 19th, you're well within that time frame for either guy.
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1924164 tn?1328424673
Congrats on you baby!! Yea i knew id hve to wait!! And I'm ok with that. I jus wanted a second opionion!  N you got $20 on the brain, huh?? Lol i find out dec 19 I'm hoping for a girl i already have a boy:)
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18 wks i mean!! Lol wiahing 20 to find out what baby is got 20 on the brain!!
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I know lots of men who have been fix that have children after the fact. In fact i have a friend that has 2 children after he got fixd. They are bith his kids. Sounds like it would more likly b the one who was during those dates but no way to tell at this point. Need to test baby an both men to b sure. Im 20 week due may 1st
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Either one could be the father. Only way to know is to do a paternity test after the baby is born.
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