i really need help here :(

[kinder_lola]

hi to all..
please help me :( ... please

my last period was 21april-29april...... but in may , which was 9-16 may, i had this smthg "extraordinary" thing happen to me... i had this brownish kinda thing, on my panties.. it look lyke pre-period ... the day i had it (9th May), i felt those period pain ,EXACTLY the same pain u had when u getting period... i thought i might get period that day, though it still to soon to get period, since my last was about 2 weeks before ..... but, as i wait, there's no blood (dat "true" period's blood)... this brownish thing, was on n off.. sometimes it only happen in day, but at nite, it didnt appear.. it happen till bout a week ( 9-16th May)

me n my mate, were making love on 25th april, but, we didnt have the real sex.. i mean, he didnt **** me (sorry if the word too harsh) ... nop, we didnt have that kinda sex.. sort of orgasm, i guest..but, he ejaculated around my vagina... ( his never been in mine) we had dat on 23rd May too....
wat i'm trying to say up here; i never had real sex, his penis never in my womb.. i can say i'm still a virgin.. it just, we doing orgasm, n he ejaculated around my vagina (outside me)

till today (3jun) i still didnt get my period... wat is wrong???? am i pregnant??? i'm so scared... n worry.. shud i be worried??help.. please help me :(

[kinder_lola]

he just rubbed his penis around my vagina... still, if he ejaculated, i can be pregnant too??? oh i never know dat even penis didnt enter the vagina, i can stil get pregnant.. how stupid was i.. thankz for helping me...

[ng15]

The penis does not have to enter the vagina for you to become pregnant. Sperm are really good swimmers and since he ejaculated near the opening of the vagina, you could become pregnant. Have you taken a pregnancy test? I would recommend taking one. The stress of worrying that you are pregnant could be the reason your "normal" period didn't come or you may have just had a weird cycle this time. I agree with the previous post, please look into some kind of protection if you do not wish to become pregnant. It is a common misconception that you won't become pregnant if the penis does not enter the vagina, but this is not true. Plus there are risks for STDs.

[gillianl]

if you are still a virgin you will not be pregnant, many women experience period pains around the time they are ovulating and some women have brown discharge/blood up to 2 weeks before AF it's all normal and nothing to worry about.  Before you decide to have sex make sure you and your partner are both using some sort of contraception to stop an unwanted pregnancy and contracting STD's