i was 4 weeks pregnant!!!!

[deep00]

i did blood test last week and found that i was prgnant of 4 weeks.than last week thursday i started bleeding in the morning and i went to the emergency they did ecography and told me baby is in the right place and baby is okey!!the next day friday i did the blood test to see the hcg it was my first hcg test and it was 780;at the same day i had quite huge bleeding and i saw big clot of blood going out.i had appointment with my doctor and my doctor suggested me to the the another test of hcg after two days on monday and the test was so low 87. im so hope less i don't know my baby is okey or not i have to wait more five days to do the another ecography.and from yesterday i stoped bleeding.but my lower back is paining and i have headche and im feeling so weak.is anyone has like my problem?please help me cos i ve little hope inside by seeing this website.

[deep00]

thanks ladies for the posts::well i don't know myself what to do as well my hubby comes only in the weekend in the home cos  his work is far at the moment!!!i have been with him from six years.last year i used brith control pills.and when im ready to make baby after i stoped the pills after 2 months i got pregnant.and as well my family are worrying about me they want to see soon baby and we also think its right time im 23 already!!but somewhere im worried as well beacuse once we got pregnant and misscarrige its really hurting sometimes!!!but the truth is truth!! when my love will come in the home than we will decide!!!!!i had misscarrige naturally don't know what will be the best!!!i will be keeping posting on the coming days.well best wishes to all of you!!and god bless all of you!!!anyway thanks all of you for giving me hope!!!

[rebekah385]

I had a miscarriage at 12 weeks afterward i planned on waiting a while to heal and get used to the idea, was avoiding pregnancy and found out I was pregnant 7 weeks after my miscarriage. My doctor put my progesterone to try and help avoid miscarriage again i carried full term and had a healthy baby boy. my doctor said that your body is actually more fertile aftera miscarriage, but that some peoples bodies adjust to the short length of the pregnancy, so they need to rest their bodies first. If you really don't want to wait to try to get pregnant again maybe you should talk with you OB about why they don't want you to try or alternates some people have healthy pregnancy right after and some continue to miscarry

[Rosa20]

so sorry for your loss hun! I know this time seems hard and you have been through it before but we are here if you need some support!! Like tara said its mostly a chromosome issue!! You feel when you will be ready again and whenever you feel you are physically and emotionally ready again then i would start trying but not before! Give yourself some time!! HUgs

[tarajanes]

Im sorry for your loss.doctors always say wait 3 months,no particular reason its just to give your body time to heal.i myself have mc numerous times,did concieve once straight from a mc,but mc again,im currently 16 weeks pregnant took us almost 8 years.you will carry full term,its normally a chromozone issue why these things happen,let yourself heal,emotionally and you will know when the time is right.however if you were to concieve straight away there are many women who have and had a healthy pregnancy,best of luck for the future.

[deep00]

thanks for ur comment.i went to the emergency today and i did the ecography no more baby i accept the truth.and doctor told me take three months rest for my uterus maybe its tired!!!i don't know what should i do???i listen that after the misscarraige we can be pregnant soon.is it truth or what???i want to have baby!!!don't know why the doctor told me i should think about baby after three months!!!!!may be i will be soon mom cos its second time i loosed my baby.as far as i waited long time nearly 5 years for this baby !!!is it possible to have baby soon after the miscarriage or it will be the same situation!!!!!!
and good luck for you too!!!!best wishes to you!!

[tinytoes200]

the same thing happened me i was just 5 weeks,but when i went back for another blood test the doc gave me an internal and said there was no piont in doing another test,he was pritty sure i lost the baby.
on the upside,4 weeks later,i missed my period,i found i was pregnant again,im now 6 weeks and no pains or headackes this time so it looks good.
good luck,dont lose hope xx

[deep00]

thank you very much for ur comment.im waiting to go to the urgence !!!no matter if i ve misscarried may be god wants this!!!this is  my second pregnant  i already misscarried before 4 years my first baby.and im still hoping and dreaming but i accept the truth;thank you and god blees you.

[gillianl]

i think you may have miscarried, the fact your numbers dropped from 780 to 87 doesn't sound good as the numbers are supposed to rise the longer you are pregnant, i am really sorry and hope i am wrong best of luck to you!!