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im 25 weeks and 4 days and ive been feeling super attached to my bf

I've been feeling real attached to my boyfriend.  Been a couple weeks already I feel like I contact do nothing with out him.it stresses both of us out idle what to do When I'm not with him I cry till he gets home. Is it. Cuz of me oh is it Cuzco the baby wants to be with him all the time...I'm loosing it help( :
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I understand what ur foing thru. this is my first and Im 14w 5d and my husband has been out of town for work for 3 weeks but home on weekends, the first weekend he got home around 2am and I had to get up and leave on a work trip a couple hrs later so we only had that time together and slept lol but when hes been gone only a couple days I get really emotional and cry at silly things like a dog food comercial, and I text him alot then he will just call me to calm me down and just hearing his voice helps. Maybe see if ur man can call at least once while hes gone to work and again on his way home from work. Other than that try to relax, and do a few things to get ur mind off him for a few min or so. Hang in there and congradulations!
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I'm feeling the same way! I cried the other night bc my husband was going to go eat with my in laws and I was sick so I couldn't go. I cried and cried bc I didn't want him to leave lol when he goes to work I constantly text him and I know I drive him nuts lol he is being pretty good about it though.. Bless him. I even tried to get him to quit work bc I wanted him home at night lol it's driving me CRAZY! Then I get upset bc I know I'm getting on his nerves lol so you definitely aren't alone in this situation!
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With my first pregnancy I always wanted to be around my husband. This pregnant not so much lol. But probably because i have sooo much to do. I take online classes, have a 2 year old to take care of all day and have to organize for this coming baby. I find myself able to get more work done when he's not around. But what ur feeling is completely normal. I was like that before. N I was depressed about my body and insecure. This pregnancy those things don't bother me. I know ill lose all my weight just like last time, and that my husband will love me regardless. Don't stress urself out or the baby. Enjoy the alone time u get to urself now! Lounge out and read a book or watch a movie. Enjoy ur time before the baby comes.
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I've done that to I called him a couple tines crying for him to come home lnfao....yeah I'm having a boy so I'm guessing. The baby wants him around a lot...(; hopefully everything turns out good.
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I totally understand where your coming from. When my bf goes to work I get so sad & want him to come home. I remember one night calling him crying cause I missed him so much. With my 1st pregnancy I had a girl but didnt fell this way at all. Now were having a boy, maybe that has something to do with it.
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Ur lucky I don't have it that way nd he stresses out that I want to be with him a lot I just feel like I need him with me 24/7 lol...I mean its getting better in actually letting Him out but there's days I cnt be without him for note then 30 mins
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1966562 tn?1339819526
Dont feel bad this is my 2nd baby and I cannot get enough of my fiance.But he feels the same way. Its kinda cute lol. When he goes to the store hell call me just to say he missed me. When he goes to work I send like 1000 text msgs. I would think its normal. Hes always worried about me and his unborn child. I always want my protector around. Dont feel bad
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Thanks for ur help yeah its my 1st so its real real hard.
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Hi It normal to want support from a loved one especially when pregnant, this is your first child and your hormones are all over the place, though I don't think it is healthy to be crying all the time too much stress is bad for anyone, try get out with some friends or family, do a spar day and relax,
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I misspelled. A couple. Thing. Ops
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