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im scared to have sex after baby :(
My sons is 2 weeks old. My husband and I have decided no sex in the vagina till the 6 weeks.is up. I'm not sore. I'm barley bleeding nemore. But im just so scared to have sex when the time. Comes. I'm scares its gunman hurt. Was neone else like this?!  LOL I feel dumb.
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It does not hurt i waited about 8 or 9 weeks before having sex with my bf. I only thing about having sex you to pick the perfect time with a baby in the house and keeping the sexy in the relationship.
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ya the only thing i would be scared of is getting pregnant again ahah
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Aw i feel the same way lol i had my baby a Week ago n even after that 6week check ill b scared!! Lol cuz im still pretty sore down there n scared it will b like that 4ever:( lol
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OMG I know I'm soscared about getting pregnant LOL. Even though in gunna. Be on birth control it still makes Me sso nervous.LOL
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Me too!! My husband comes back from Afghanistan Saturday ill be 5 wks pp and im terrified that I will retear my scar
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OMG that has to be scary!!
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I had vaginal birth with no tears or anything. I stopped bleeding after 2 weeks and we had sex as soon as I quit. It wasn't bad, we took it easy and of course used protection.
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My bleeding is slowing down I barley bleed so hopefully ill stop soon. And I didn't tear or anything and I'm not sore so maybe it'll be good
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Yourstruly I was afraid of the same thing. But I did not tear and everything was fine. Did mot hurt as much as everone told me it would as well
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Missy I hope thats how things workout for me! I haven't been sore for like almost 4 weeks already I was never really in any pain down there
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All I can say is welcome lube into your bedroom.  Whether you think you'll need it or you don't, be prepared.  It makes everything easier if it happens to feel uncomfortable :)
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With my first we tried to have, very gentle sex, 3 weeks pp, which i would never do again-it hurt doing it and after and i also started bleeding again. with my other children i have waited until at  least 6 weeks pp and i was still petrified from my first experience, but it was fine. Remember everyone is different. I would just say go so so gentle AS possible and if your not comfortable just stop and wait another week lol
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Omg you guys are champs because after my first son it felt like a huge metal pole being shoved in side of me
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And we waited 2 1/2 months
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@eliassmommy thats such a great way to describe it! Lol
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LOL OMG now I'm scared. Ahhh!!! The only thing that scares me is if I set down for.like.an hour or so n I stand up it feels like somethings gunna fall out of my vagina. It don't hurt. And it goes away after walking.. anyone have this??
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Haha I feel the same way. I'm 4 weeks pp and I want to but a little scared. Especially since my hubby wants to have out kids back to back. I'm use the excuse of I'm still healing you can't introduce bacteria so wear something. Haha I'm excited yet scared :-) haha
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You need to wait longer than two weeks. Doctors advise six weeks. Four at the earlyest. I have sex after twelve weeks and i still riped a little. Be careful.
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I didn't say I was. I said I was scared too lol
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My doc said when I was ready and at my 6 week everything was fine. You can always ask your docs opinion
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I don't plan on even trying till 6 weeks pl. Nothilg is sore n ifeel great. I'm just so nervous its killing me lol
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