^^agreed if enable a man he won't be a man cut off giving him $$ or taking care of him its gone have him come to the real world n see he needs to man up and do what he needs for his family a man shouldn't want his pregnant woman working while he sit on his butt n if he doesn't get it together tell him u are gone (my opinion)
Trying to change someone is a wasted effort. They have free will and will do what they please. You have to change your behaviors if you want to see a change. If you want him to get a job, don't pay for anything for him. If you want him to do anything around the house, don't do his share.
Your welcome sweetie we're here for you
" A real man never hurts a women , be careful when you make a women cry because god counts her tears . the women came out of a mans rib , not from his feet to be walked on , and not from his head to be surperior . but from the side to be equal , under his arm to be protected and next to the heart to be loved" this christian quote got me throu so much when I was dealing with boys who I thought were men . alot don't realize that a boy and a man are totally different . I hope this helped (: and hope for the best ♡♥
Wanting him to share y'all responsibilities isn't aaking for too much he needs to help out before you become too stress i would tell him to get it together and fast or its over hope all go's well good luck